When Male Femininity is Realized!

This is a Post from Bella Luna, a Dominant Woman that has Feminized her husband!

And here is a response to the photo posted!

So true. I would love to support my wife even more. Even if she would want me becoming her maid I would say ‚yes

Marie-Christine Müller

 how lovely for her to come around she will learn the benefits of having a feminized male do the housework

Successful Career Women need Feminized male wives that keep their house spotless, while making sure that they keep a slim figure, a completely smooth and hairless body, and are Always dressed in a very feminine, preferably skirted clothing showing their total submissiveness to the Superior Female.
Yes, that would be wonderful

Today’s Posting is focusing on the Growth in the Feminine male persona!  It is becoming more commonplace to see Feminized men and boys in public.  What is really Exciting for those of us that have advocated for Male Femininity is that these men and boys are presenting as men and boys….Femininely!  As many of us here on the Blog are advocating for this male Femininity, and a Reversal in Gender Roles, it is Important to us that these Feminized males are identifying as male.  For the Superior Women that read our Blog, it is Important that the realization that the males are being “conquered”, for lack of a better term, by the once “inferior” Female.  This in essence, is what Gender Role Reversal and Female Empowerment is about!

You can imagine how Proud the Wife of this Pretty sissy must be to see him so daintily dressed!


Enthusiastic: Samuel, who goes by his middle name Kai, has an interest in movies and the performing arts, which is perhaps unsurprising given that his parents are both actors


While Cute boys like Kai are into theatre and such, many young Girls are now playing Football and other Contact Sports!

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Seeing men in stores shopping, especially for feminine clothing is an Awesome Sight indeed!


And while men like the Cute man above in his Frilly pink dress are spending their time shopping, more and more Strong Women are hitting the gym and developing their Strength!

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Here is a story from 2018 that backs up the assertion that Society is indeed changing in this direction.  This is from Japan.

Exploring Japan’s ‘genderless’ subculture

Updated 16th January 2018
Jennifer Robertson is a professor of anthropology and history of art at the University of Michigan.
In the narrow alleys of Tokyo’s ultra-trendy Harajuku district, a growing number of Japanese men who self-identify as “genderless” are boldly broadening their sartorial and cosmetic choices. With faces expertly made up, hair dyed and stylishly coifed, eyebrows plucked and painted, they sashay from one indie boutique to the next.
Harajuku has become a catwalk for jendaresu-kei (or “genderless style”). Although women who dress in a more stereotypically masculine way may also identify as “genderless,” in Japan, the term jendaresu-kei more commonly refers to biological males who are neither interested nor invested in looking like “suits.”
Some, like celebrity model Ryuchell, insist that they are neither cross-dressing nor, necessarily, gay. Nor are they transgender in the sense of having a gender identity that differs from the sex they were assigned at birth.
Ryuchell (right) walking through the streets of Tokyo with his wife Peco.
Ryuchell (right) walking through the streets of Tokyo with his wife Peco.
What blogs and news stories on this genderless-male sensation often fail to articulate is that Ryuchell and his cohort have — whether consciously or not — separated sex (the biological body) from gender (the accessorized body). For them, a male body need not conform to a stereotypical manly appearance.
Matching colorfully patterned fabrics and fingernails with “kawaii” (cute) hats and purses, they signal a vibrant new masculine style. But they may also represent wider changes in the way male roles are perceived in Japanese society.
Feminine males and masculine females are common tropes in Japanese culture, usually in ritual or theatrical contexts involving cross-dressing. The onnagata (male players of women’s roles in classical Kabuki theater) and otokoyaku (female players of men’s roles in the Takarazuka Revue theater troupe) are famous outside the country for their gendered performances.
Off stage, Japan is home to hundreds of cross-dressing clubs (like Tokyo’s famous Elizabeth Club) that are aimed at middle-aged, white-collar and outwardly straight males. Members enter an environment that helps them transition from businessmen to stereotypically feminine personas for the purpose of stress release, among other things.

Blurring boundaries

These cross-dressing clubs and theater traditions still rely on mainstream conceptions of femininity and masculinity. But Japanese history is also filled with examples of pioneers who have blurred the distinction. A century ago, the spectacle of Westernized modern girls (or “moga”) strolling through Tokyo sporting short hair, slacks, culottes and flapper-like outfits, raised many an eyebrow. After all, most women wore kimonos in public.
Jeered on the streets and called “garçons” in the press, moga were dismissed as unfeminine. Criticisms were premised on a zero-sum view of sex and gender: If females were becoming more masculine, it meant that males were becoming feminized. Nevertheless, more broadminded urbanites, including artists, viewed the modern girls as avant-garde.
Today, moga would likely self-identify as genderless, in the sense that they rejected the traditional kimonos and chignons. And today’s genderless males also have historical counterparts in the Europeanized “high collar” (haikara) men from the turn of the 20th century.
Fussy about their appearance, these metrosexual dandies wore facial powder and carried scented handkerchiefs. Invoking a familiar zero-sum equation, critics claimed that the “high collars” spent more time beautifying themselves than women did.
Similar complaints were leveled against their more youthful contemporaries, the “beautiful youths” (bishonen) eulogized in popular illustrated magazines, their ambiguous gender and sexual orientations appealing to men and women of all ages.
More recently, the term “herbivore males” (soshoku danshi) was coined to describe young men who eschew machismo, are fastidious about their appearance, and treat females as friends, not sex objects. Conservative pundits accuse them of being unmanly cowards.

Changing expectations

The genderless males of today’s Harajuku district are either unaware of — or do not acknowledge — their predecessors. Instead, as Ryuchell explains, the inspiration for genderless style encompasses three modes of fashion: androgynous Korean pop groups; “visual kei,” a 1980s glam-rock genre featuring flamboyantly outfitted male performers; and the fashion of 1980s and 1990s America, which combined colorful clothing and accessories in unusual, eye-catching ways.
Like “herbivore” and “high collar” before it, genderless is becoming more than a buzzword. The trend of men eschewing Japan Inc’s navy blue suits is outlasting the fast cycles of the fashion industry. As a lifestyle, signs of genderlessness are also evident among men far removed from the Harajuku scene.
Ikumen (literally “child-rearing men”) may wear suits to work, but they are breaking with convention by insisting on spending more time at home with their children. This is partly thanks to the work of Fathering Japan, a non-profit organization that encourages men to become “smiling dads” who enjoy playing a more active role in their children’s upbringing.
The group’s increased visibility and growing network have gradually helped reduce the stigma around the role of house husband. In turn, zero-sum criticisms of role-blurring mavericks appear less and less frequently in the media.
To limit discussion of Japan’s genderless males to the Harajuku fashion scene is to ignore the velvet revolt against “suit masculinity” and all it signifies.
And here is a Post from Jenna, on this Forum that this article was posted, backing up what is happening in Japan.
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Have a sister who is raising a son while teaching in Japan.

They’ve lived there for 6 years, so her 10 year old son speaks the language fluently, and he goes to a progressive school in Tokyo.

He (and his little boy-friends) are quite very much encouraged to be gender-neutral, just like you are talking of, Patti. They wear tights (usually white) for gym class with sneakers and T-shirts, and while Tommy doesn’t wear skirts to school, he does wear neat little flare-legged shorts that look very pretty with solid-color pantyhose or tights when the weather is chilly. He plays soccer and is on the boys cheer squads for the other teams. At home, he and his friends are frequently encouraged to have girl-weekends; they have second closets, usually in the guest room, with their girl-time clothes. Other days they happily spend as fairly typical boys, but even then they are probably wearing cute patterned knee-socks, or a sparkly cap-sleeved shirt.

Many of these boys really seem to just flitter and dance right between the sexes. It’s just lovely to see.

It is a Delight to see men openly presenting themselves in Cute dresses, nylons, makeup and such!


Seeing men on the street in their dresses is such a Delight!


A Posting here from the Facebook Site, A crossdresser’s Wife is so Positive in it’s support, from Women, of Male Feminization.  This continues to Grow, and as you can see, Women are enjoying the Femininity of their men.

Just your everyday Wifey, madly in love with her Crossdressing Hubbie! Here to share some stories and insights! Offering acceptance and support to Crossdressers everywhere! Hoping to inspire others!

Here she is with her Beautiful hubbie!   She is wearing the slacks, he is in his skirt and patterned tights!


On their Site, they Encourage and Support other Couples that embrace male Femininity!

Time once again for another edition of “Togetherness Tuesday!” Every Tuesday, I’ve been highlighting Genderqueer loving couples. So, join me in welcoming & go give a follow our dear and beautiful friends, @natasha_gay09 and her wife, Katie! We had the enormous pleasure of meeting her in person at the first @genderahakeusa in Chicago! Natasha has become family since then 💗 When I asked Natasha for a brief description of their relationship, here’s what she had to say!
“Vincent-Natasha Gay and Katie Gay are true high school sweethearts, whose love transcends traditional binary gender roles! After being married in 2014, Vincent-Natasha came out as genderfluid in December of 2018 to Katie, and their love has only blossomed from there. Vincent-Natasha has become a model, activist, and interviewer; all while having a true love from an amazing supportive spouse. Check out more from them at @natasha_gay09 on Instagram, and reach out to them. They love hearing from everyone and offering a kind loving ear.” 🥰 Be sure to check out her page! So, if you’re a Queer loving couple, no matter how you identify, let us know & share it for all see! to Here’s the set up!💕 DM a pic of you and your loved one dressed! Face shots are encouraged, but not necessary! You must have at least 5 posts on your page dressed. Keeping it classy! While sexy attire is fun, explicit pics will not be posted! Be willing to share in supporting others! 💗 We’re all in this together! Dress on, my Lovelies! 😊💗✌️

Time once again for another edition of “Togetherness Tuesday!” Every Tuesday, I’ve been highlighting Genderqueer loving couples. So, join me in welcoming & go give a follow to the lovely, @Alisha92cd and her wife! When I asked Alisha for a brief description of their relationship, here’s what she had to say! .”My wife’s name is Sarah. She. always knew I liked to crossdresser, but about 5 months ago I told her I wanted to dress 90 percent of the time so she helped me. I’m a solicitor and she runs a fitness business. Our relationship is very sporadic, we tend to jump at everything! Last year we went on the tv series “A place in the sun” lol. I guess we are loud and out going! She helps me dress as Alisha and named me Alisha. She does my make up in return for a foot rub. We have a loving relationship and ideally want to make friends with other crossdressers/ trans and hopefully have parties in the future!” Such a fun couple! 🥰 So, if you’re a Queer loving couple, no matter how you identify, let us know & share it for all see! to Here’s the set up!💕 DM a pic of you and your loved one dressed! Face shots are encouraged, but not necessary! You must have at least 5 posts on your page dressed. Keeping it classy! While sexy attire is fun, explicit pics will not be posted! Be willing to share in supporting others! 💗 We’re all in this together! Dress on, my Lovelies!


Time once again for another edition of “Togetherness Tuesday!” Every Tuesday, I’ve been highlighting Genderqueer loving couples. So, join me in welcoming & go give a follow to the lovely, @chrissy.mano and her wife, Jomana! When I asked Chrissy for a brief description of their relationship, here’s what she had to say! .”We have been married for 8 years now and we have a 6 year old princess together 🤗 Since our 2nd date that we had in 2011, I have told my wife about my love for crossdressing and she didn’t give much thought into it, as she thought that it’s just a phase in my life that will go away. In 2015 my love for crossdressing got stronger and wanted to buy all my own stuff and my wife got bothered and we had a huge talk about it (communication is vital) and she supported me by buying makeup, clothes etc all for myself. My wife aswell supported me by giving my own time, space for myself whenever I needed which really helped us have a stronger relationships and bond. Today we both support each other than ever before, we are in a open relationship now, my wife admitted that even though she accepts me as a crossdresser she can’t fully accept Chrissy but she’s trying her best. What we are trying to say is that communication, love and support are the main keys to have a successful relationship of any kind ❤️” Love seeing their continued growth! 🥰 So, if you’re a Queer loving couple, no matter how you identify, let us know & share it for all see! to Here’s the set up!💕 DM a pic of you and your loved one dressed! Face shots are encouraged, but not necessary! You must have at least 5 posts on your page dressed. Keeping it classy! While sexy attire is fun, explicit pics will not be posted! Be willing to share in supporting others! 💗 We’re all in this together! Dress on, my Lovelies!

Time once again for another edition of “Togetherness Tuesday!” Every Tuesday, I’ve been highlighting Cross Dressing loving couples. So, join me in welcoming & go give a follow to lovey @nell.cd and her partner Nicky! When I asked Nell to give a brief description of her style and relationship, here’s what she had to say! “When I first met my partner Nicky, I hadn’t told anyone before that I dress in female clothes. Her loving and easy going personality made it very easy for me to open up about my Dressing! I like some very specific clothing and styles. I love the office girl/secretary look and I was concerned that Nicky would think it was “weird”. But, instead, she loved it! We love to dress in my gorgeous satin and sheer blouses. She also does a wicked job on my makeup too! I remember when I first told her about my dressing and she said “you can wear any of my clothes you like.” I knew I had a keeper right then! Happily married now and our dress up fun is only just beginning. If you havnt told your partner you dress yet, do it! Girls like us!” What an adorable pair!! 🥰 So, whether your partners feeling pretty in panties, or an individual making a difference in this world, let us know and share it for all to see! Visibility is the path to acceptance!! Here’s the set up!💕 DM a pic of you and your loved one dressed! Face shots are encouraged, but not necessary! You must have at least 5 posts on your page dressed. Keeping it classy! While sexy attire is fun, explicit pics will not be posted! Be willing to share in supporting others dressing! 💗 If you’re active in the community or have a talent with the aim of making difference, please DM with your suggestions! We’re all in this together! Dress on, my Lovelies!

Here is a Very Encouraging response she gave to a spouse of a Crossdresser!

Greetings and Salutations, my beautiful friends! Recently, I had the spouse of a CD reach out to me. She only recently learned of her husband’s crossdressing, and is supportive. She’s even helped him Dress and wants his happiness. Although, she remarked, she still has moments of conflict and confusion. Here’s what I had to say to her. 💗
“First of all, give yourself a full on pat on the back for being open to understanding this aspect of your husband! I absolutely think that’s awesome! You must love him very much. And he must love you equally so, in order to share this side of himself with you. This makes you a strong couple. And strong couples always communicate their feelings. And it’s also understandable that you may struggle with this being a new development for you. It’s ok to feel conflicted. Your husband probably felt conflicted himself for years, as to why he feels the need to be en Femme. Learning can sometimes be uncomfortable, because it may challenge previous held beliefs. And that’s ok. When you start feeling conflicted, talk to your husband. Explain your feelings, but also take time to examine why you’re having the feeling. Are you fearful of something? How can that fear be eased? This journey can be a beautiful one, if you chose it to be. You have an amazing opportunity to know your husband more deeply than any other human soul on this planet. That’s something worth exploring. And you’ll learn more about yourself in return. 💗 I hope you continue to support and encourage, but also take some time for yourself. You’re doing the best you can! That’s all anyone can ask! Be proud of yourself and your husband.” Just thought I’d share, in case anyone else needed to hear it. 💗 Stay healthy and Dress on, my Lovelies!!

Time once again for another edition of “Togetherness Tuesday!” Every Tuesday, I’ve been highlighting Cross Dressing loving couples. So, join me in welcoming & go give a follow to the lovely @rymes_with_kevin and his beautiful wife, Rebecca! When I asked Kevin for a brief description of their style and relationship, here’s what he had to say! “My wife and I live in Florida and are very happily married without kids. I was born a boy and have always loved to crossdress ever since I can remember as a very young person. I am currently working with a therapist to determine if I am truly transgender, genderfluid or gender queer, non-binary or just a straight male crossdresser. We go out together all the time dressed to the nine’s and other times I’m more androgynous and just wear gender-neutral or slightly feminine things with light makeup. We are both hard working professionals, my wife is a cis female and we met while she was taking ballet and I taking tap at a local adult dance studio in the town we live in.” Such a fabulous couple!! 💗🥰💗 So, whether your partners feeling pretty in panties, or an individual making a difference in this world, let us know and share it for all to see! Visibility is the path to acceptance!! Here’s the set up!💕 DM a pic of you and your loved one dressed! Face shots are encouraged, but not necessary! You must have at least 5 posts on your page dressed. Keeping it classy! While sexy attire is fun, explicit pics will not be posted! Be willing to share in supporting others dressing! 💗 If you’re active in the community or have a talent with the aim of making difference, please DM with your suggestions! We’re all in this together! Dress on, my Lovelies!

These photos really show the Progress being made in the Feminization of men.  Seeing men so daintily dressed, and made up, is but a glimpse of the future ahead!



In the New Age of Female Control…..this is the New Reality!

Samantha Claire
Samantha Claire, Feminized Servant to my Wife


Samantha Claire
Samantha Claire, High heels are part of my daily uniform.


The Changes that Continue!

What has Happened to so many men????

This man has “Surrendered” to his Mistress!

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A Stay at Home hubbie!

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Another Stay at Home hubbie!

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Mothers Taking Control!


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An Appropriately dressed husband, with his Wife wearing the Pants!

WOMEN Taking Control!


Many men are Learning their New Position in Society!

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The FAQs of Life: My Son Wears Dresses
In our series “The FAQs of Life” we’re highlighting two moms who share their most frequently asked questions about their awesome sons who like to wear dresses.

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Welcome to our blog series “The FAQs of Life” where we highlight amazing kids and parents in our Primary community who have stories to tell! Today we have two different moms, Danielle Aceino and Callie Glorioso-Mays, sharing their most frequently asked questions about their awesome sons who, among many other interests, enjoy wearing dresses.

Asher wears the kids rainbow stripe t-shirt dress in rainbow ivory

7 year old boy with long hair wearing a rainbow stripe t shirt dress from primary in a park

Q: When did your son start wearing dresses?
Danielle’s Answer: Asher was about 4 years old when he first felt the magic of twirling in a dress. He had heard us talk openly about how “being a boy or a girl” shouldn’t dictate what you like or play with; that you can enjoy any color, toy or article of clothing you want. I think that got his mind turning and one day he complimented me on my own dress and then shyly asked, “But I can’t wear one, right?” When I look back at this moment I realize how this was an important question and how he was really asking to test my reaction. Would I disapprove? Hesitate? Instead, I responded with an “of course you can wear a dress!” His face instantly lit up. I found a smaller dress of mine and he didn’t take it off for days!

Callie’s Answer: One day when Hadden was a toddler, I put on a necklace and he wanted to as well. Another day one of his friends left her hair clip at our house and he was delighted to try it out in his short hair. When his baby sister joined our family we acquired a few hair bows and Hadden wanted to wear those as well. When he was five he found a yellow tutu dress in a store and asked me to buy matching dresses for him and his little sister. It was the sweetest, most earnest request. I was definitely a tad nervous about other people’s reactions, but we decided to go for it. The dress made him so happy (and he learned so many good responses to people’s questions) that my husband and I have been happy to support our dress-loving boy ever since.

Q: Do other kids think he’s a girl? Does it bother him?
Danielle’s Answer: Because he has long hair as well, most kids think he’s a girl. He’s pretty good with calmly saying, “no I’m just a boy with long hair.” Or “I’m a boy wearing pink and dresses.” He doesn’t often wear dresses out, so most of the mis-gendering comes from his long hair. It doesn’t seem to bother him, but we are very intentional about explaining that being called a girl isn’t an insult because girls are awesome! We tell him that it’s a chance for him to help educate his peers and that most kids aren’t being intentionally mean, they are just going by their experience and they may have only seen boys with short hair and never in dresses.

Callie’s Answer: For sure! But we’ve told him from the beginning that being a girl isn’t a bad thing so it’s not bad if someone assumes that you are. That being said, Hadden usually corrects people and, if not, my husband or I do. We kindly say, “He’s a boy who loves dresses!” I try to always do it with a smile to assure them that we’re not upset that our son wears dresses and we’re not upset that they were mistaken. Hadden knows that in our culture most people expect dress-wearing people to be girls or women. That isn’t the way it has to be; it’s just what most people are used to. (I love reminding people that Jesus wore dresses.) Sometimes people look startled when we say that he’s a boy, but we’ve had lots of positive reactions to his dresses too.

Q: How do you deal with family who disagree with this choice?
Danielle’s Answer: This is a tricky question, especially since we come from very conservative, traditional families. For the most part, comments are kept to a minimum but for Asher’s sake we do tend to avoid him wearing his dresses around certain family members. This also takes intentional conversations because we never want him to feel shame in this area. He knows to respect that others may have different (and strong) opinions on boys wearing dresses but that he has the full support of his parents and brothers

Callie’s Answer: It wasn’t that long ago that girls were sent home from school for wearing pants because they were deemed “boys clothes.” Then times changed, it became more acceptable for women to wear clothes that had typically been reserved for men. But things haven’t changed the other way. It’s okay for a woman to take on masculine qualities. It’s still seen as degrading for a man to take on feminine ones. It’s seen as a demotion or a weakness. If loved ones are uncomfortable with my son loving dresses I’d challenge them to dig into those feelings of discomfort and see what lies at the bottom. Just as society morphed when our mothers and grandmothers starting wearing pants, I hope that in 10-15 years we’ll realize that society has adjusted again to allow men more freedom in expressing themselves through clothing.

Q: Do you recommend any books that help kids with different gender expressions?
Danielle’s Answer: We LOVE Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love and Morris Micklewhite as well as The Tangerine Dress by Christine Baldacchino and Isabelle Malenfant. These are both wonderful and captivating books that help kids who may feel different from their peers understand that there is nothing wrong with wearing dresses or putting on some makeup for fun! Asher walked into Sephora the other day and immediately declared, “this is my heaven!” with such genuine joy and all I could think of was how pure and honest his heart is and how grateful I am for the authors and artists that contribute to my son’s confidence and secure sense of identity!

Callie’s Answer: We love the book, “I Love My Purse” by Belle Demont (illustrated by Sonja Wimmer). It tells the story of Charlie, a boy who happily wears his purse despite other people’s confusion and encourages them to wear or do what makes them happy. This book is a great way to start conversations about those “rules” of gender and show kids that it doesn’t have to be so rigid.

A huge thank you to Danielle & Asher, and Callie & Hadden for sharing their FAQs and photos with us! You can keep up with both of these amazing families on Instagram:

Hadden wears the kids stripe twirly dress in heather gray

6 year old boy in a gray striped sleeveless dress from Primary rock climbing

Asher wears the kids rainbow stripe t-shirt dress in rainbow ivory (So nice to see the Girl in  jeans!)

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Hadden and his sister wear the kids dress in sunshine

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While men and boys are evolving into Femininity……Women and Girls are Taking over in what was once “male Only” Activities!

Young Girls are now Enjoying Playing Football!

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Women are now Playing Football in ever Increasing numbers!

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Women's National Football Conference Hopes to Turn an Adidas Grant Into a TV Show - D Magazine

The New Age of Women!

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We now see who is wearing the Pants!

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Who are the Beauty “Queens” or “Prince(sses) Now??

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So the Question  must be asked…..Do some Women Enjoy the benefits of Feminized males?  Here is a posting from a beautiful married man that goes by Jenny Maid.   I will let you make the decision!


Jenny Maid
May 4


The evening started out being short a cup of sugar which turned into sending me over to the neighbors to retrieve a cup, to deciding that the girls needed someone to make them drinks, to deciding that they wanted someone to do some cleaning before the men came home, to deciding that one of the girls home from college should have other friends over to have drinks from the maid, to the maid preparing dinner for all of them. Needless to say a new experience for all of them and me included. We all had a great time and they really enjoyed seeing a woman in charge and got into putting me in poses. The girls loved seeing how long I could stand in my heels with different girly poses and keep the college textbook on my head and how far I could walk in my heels without it falling off. I think every sissy girls fantasy come true. Great to have an accepting wife and fantastic neighbors and friends!



Don’t know what the other Women were wearing, but is so Invigorating to see that his Wife is wearing Pants while he is in his Cute Pink Dress, high heels and tights!




Male Femininity Continues to Grow!

Wherever you look, you will see more and more men and boys being and becoming feminine.  What a delight!  Some boys are even encouraging other boys to be pretty, and wear dresses and skirts!   Yes, the world is changing!

A Willing and Docile ‘Janegirl’
from Patricia S.

Dear Susan,
I am writing to share what I think was a very worthwhile experience for my nephew, although there is a slight twist that I’ll explain later. Anyway, I’m sure others may disagree with me on this, but that’s ok. I do know that the world will have one less conceited and self-centered male in its midst, and, if for no other reason than this, it was worth it.
Some background first, and mostly just a few words about my sister and me for a little context. We grew up tomboys. In fact as children, we grew up on a farm with no boys to do the things that generally only boys do. My father, out of necessity, insisted on it, and that pretty much was that.
But we also grew up as girlish girls, and for that, I adore my father because he always made sure that we looked like girls when we were not doing chores. Dinner was a dress-up affair and Mom’s skills at a sewing machine allowed us more than enough reasons to want to dress up. As far as we were concerned we had the best of both worlds, but we discovered that it was a world which has little room for tomboys. It’s been a lifetime’s worth of struggle, for both of us, making sure that the world around us gives us our due. It has also left us very intolerant of any form of prejudgment of women.
Which left me very angry over a comment my nephew made one day, when I called my daughter in to hem a dress I was making. Actually he’s made several over the way my daughter behaves, only because she’s as much a tomboy as I was. Nothing serious, and most times my daughter ignores such things but this one justified my wrath.
“So if you want to be a boy so badly, then how come you are still wearing dresses?” He said and this was said in front of a group of boys.
My daughter beats my nephew at a number of things and I’m sure that this had a lot to do with it, but that aside, it was his “public” humiliation of her that rose my hackles. It was also his attitude when he came in at my call. There was a cockiness about him as he stood there that left me even angrier.
So I struck a deal.
He would take my daughter’s place while I fixed the hem of that dress, or when he returned to those boys I was simply going to call out to him (loud enough for those boys to hear) that he needed to come in so I could fix the hem on “his” dress. I added that I’d leave it up to him to explain to those boys what I meant – suggesting, as well, that him denying there was even such a dress might still not work with boys like that. And I got that idea from a certain site that I had seen on the net!
To be honest with you I took great pleasure in that look on his face when the realization sank in on what that would do to his current status with his friends. I also said that if his cousin was such a tomboy and should be wearing pants, according to him, then it might be better if he became a “Janegirl” and wore the dresses for a time.
That’s when I expanded the deal a little, adding that, once the dress was done, and I was only an hour or so away from that, it would be his dress for this weekend. His dress and whatever else he would need as a Janegirl. Same consequences as before if he said no. His apology, I noted, would be in that form of a penance, and I would accept nothing less.
I also knew that he had no choice and so did he. I did allow him to save face with those boys by giving him a moment to go tell them he’d been grounded for the rest of that weekend for his remarks. He did that, and ten minutes later was taking his first bubble bath, which was my daughter’s suggestion.
I also left what he’d wear up to her as well, so she felt that she had a hand in his “punishment” and to keep this on a decent enough level, all I’ll say of that is that his panties had Saturday on them. We also decided that since he was a Janegirl, and she was a tomboy, then it would be appropriate for their roles to be fully reversed.
That meant that she got control over his video game, and he got her dolls. I also was quick about basting that hem so I could get him into something more suitable for helping with dinner. He’d wear that fancier dress for dinner and did. What did happen was predictable for the most part, because he was very humiliated when he returned to the living room in her slip and panties. What I couldn’t have fully predicted was that he got a “feel” for what it was like to dress as a girl. I don’t think my daughter noted the change as much as I did but by the time bed time rolled around there was definitely a change in him.
I noticed it when he returned in her Barbie nightgown and robe, and of course, the doll she’d chosen. At first, in those dresses, he clearly looked like a boy being punished, but by bed time he didn’t. I mean it was clear that those things he had been made to wear, and those girlish tasks he’d been given, had had an effect. His face, for lack of a better description, had grown softer, more pensive and far less angry.
On Sunday morning, when he dressed in another play dress there was no anger to be found, and by dinner that following evening he was actually playing with those dolls. He’d stop when he thought we were looking, but picked right back up again when he also thought we weren’t. By Monday however, he seemed to be his old self again.
I’m writing because of the irony of this. As it happens he returned a few weeks after that incident to help with some new additions to our calving. Actually what shocked me to my very core was his embarrassed “Maybe,” when my daughter asked if he’d like to be a Janegirl again. They were on the porch and I wanted Cindy to help with a pie I was baking, thinking John would be happy to go and nurse the new calves.
That’s when Cindy asked if it was ok with him if she went to the barn and he went to the kitchen. She was wearing jeans, and she told him directly that he would have to wear a dress and an apron. When he said “Sure”, I was more than a little surprised, although the real shock came when she said that he’d have to be a Janegirl again, and he looked downcast but gave a shy, blushing smile.
He came into the kitchen a few minutes later in one of Cindy’s play dresses, with Cindy calling back as she left the house that I would have to put him in an apron. He looked pained over it but I knew, without a doubt, he secretly wasn’t. What I didn’t know, and wanted desperately to ask about, was what he wore under that dress. I didn’t ask a single question that afternoon, nor that night when he wore the same nightgown. In fact I was struck dumb by the whole affair till he went home on Monday.
I still am, and some of it because of Cindy’s comments, when I asked what that was all about, as she answered in the most simplest of ways that John really likes being a Janegirl. I’m not even sure there is such a thing, and if there is then I suppose I know of at least one. Anyway, that last part of this wasn’t my intent by any stretch of the imagination, but there it is anyway. When John comes over, he and his cousin simply switch roles and clothes and that’s pretty much that. What to make of this I’ll leave up to you and your readers.
Cindy took a photo with an old camera, and she has hand-coloured it, which is one of her hobbies. My apologies if it’s a bit overdone.

Oh, and as a side note, his mother believes, after we talked of this, that it’s most likely a bit of nature and nurturing. Same as it was in our case growing up. Although, in any case, and as I noted in the beginning, there is going to be at least one very submissive and biddable male in this world, and of that you can be sure.
Yours truly,
Patricia S.
It’s a pity that cousins can’t get married; what an ideal marriage it would be! The photo is beautiful; it reminds me of those garishly hand-coloured postcards that holiday places used to sell when I was a girl. Girls growing up on farms do tend to combine ‘tomboy’ traits because of the farm work, with sweet femininity, because of the natural conservatism of the countryside. In that sense they can make perfect partners for domesticated and petticoated husbands. The thought has never struck me before.
It sounds like John thoroughly enjoyed his sissy Janegirl role from the very beginning.



Erotic play of a couple with a male-spouse “en-Femme”. The wife makes clear who is in charge …
Note: I like to see the Superior Lady wearing gloves when handling the penis of her Femme. I recommend to wear gloves always when working the penis of a Femme to emphasize it’s obsoleteness for a truly feminized and emasculated ex-male


Couple Play Outdoors
Isn’t it wonderful seeing this loving couple sharing playful her male-Femininity … yes, it’s her on the left, so refined “en-Femme”.
It’s a fine example how my mentoring can guide a couple into stylish Feminization and enjoy a much richer and varied spectrum of opportunities in their relationship. Once you have experienced the delights of a Feminized Male, your life will have changed forever – and there will be no way back.


Conditioning a Femme-male into refined femininity
When I’m training a Femme-male to express her femininity, dressing her is an important aspect of ‘setting’ her way of thinking and her opinions. Aiding her into her journey to become a perfect Femme-male to be adored, lingerie, dresses, skirts and heels are my friends. All these have an effect on a Femme-male and will bring her into the desired state. They limit her speed, her manoeuvrability, they make her constant aware of herself and how she appears to others. They can make her feel vulnerable and submissive. When her clothes are pink, they make her feel sexy like a doll. So I dress my Femme-males in what pleases me and what I think will contribute to their conditioning into the Femmes they wish to become. I have always in mind that she will be a delightful muse and courtesan for the Seigneur and/or Lady in her life …
Isabelle, Superior Lady and Mentor
Lady Isabelle educates young girls, mature women and Femme-males in all aspects of refined femininity to become the seductive muse and courtesan of distinguished Ladies and Gentlemen. Her clients have high requirements and often very specific essential conditions. Lady Isabelle adores Femininity in all its glorious expressions by girls, women and Feminized males.

What does a Strong Woman like this think of the Dainty males?



Women prefer feminine looking men
Women now prefer feminine looking men over their more rugged counterparts, new research suggests. The studies conclusions stand up on the continuing softening of masculine profiles in fashion, grooming, and appearance in general. The natural selection process will work hard to catch up and produce more male role models that occupy a beautiful middle ground, and are sought after by the most attractive and choice-rich women in the mating “market”.
The fact that so many Western women prefer feminine men over masculine men is new and means much.
However, the majority of women surveyed are making a class distinction, and the fact the preferred group is classified as feminine says little about the character and virtues of those so identified. Many of these so-called feminine men are, in fact, just well scrubbed alpha males. The real key is when, as a group, super achieving women start choosing a mate based on criteria other than earning power. Their preferred feminine men might be nurturing, have empathy, express sweetness of disposition, creativity, and have physical beauty. It is a sign of a major paradigm shift.
It is a signal that women have come into their own, and are willing and able to exercise power on their terms. And no longer need or want an alpha male at their side, except as an aide, certainly not as a mate. On a more basic level the more alpha women the fewer alpha men. After this shift “women will wear the pants” in deed as well as fact.




The Women are on the Move!  Changing their men for the Better!




Did you notice how the woman seems to be checking out the boy in his skirt?


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This drawing really sets forth what the future holds!!

And Britney, below, is showing the world just how pretty boys can be!


Illinois Girls Wrestling
When my kids started wrestling they roped us into a trend of having us buy them a T-shirt when they took first. When my first daughter to win a tournament chose her shirt this is what she asked for.

When my kids started wrestling they roped us into a trend of having us buy them a T-shirt when they took first.  When my first daughter to win a tournament chose her shirt this is what she asked for.

Wrestle Like a Girl Sticker

Girls are becoming Very Powerful!

Sharon Jacobson is not yet done with wrestling

It is a known fact that stronger, more conditioned wrestlers are more successful at the elite high school and college level. But getting in shape and peaking for a season is more than just grinding everyday.

The Exquisite Joys of Enforced Feminization
from Dani

Dear Miss Susan,
First of all, I am thrilled to find your site back on line. I would check periodically, and had sort of given up hope. Then just this past Sunday I was surfing the web and typed in pettiocated.com and to my delight there was a new issue! I must say that I truly missed not being able to share in the education, encouragement, and pleasure that your site offers to those submissive men and dominant women who have discovered and understood the truth, wisdom and pleasure of petticoating.
To be held under the sweet control of enforced feminization is the ultimate training and discipline for a male. As you state so brilliantly in your comments “it would be difficult to find a case in which deep love and respect by the male for his wife or sister was not an accompaniment to their overwhelming power in being capable of bringing him to such exquisite and piquant humiliation”.
It’s not just about cross dressing. It is about being under the complete and total control of a mature dominant woman whose superior feminine and matronly presence is in itself sufficient to reduce, dissolve, and transform the basest of male tendencies and desires into the pure sweet and delightful consciousness of a submissive and vulnerable little girl, whose only desire is to submit to the feminine principle through emulation and service, because he knows it is the only way.
There is absolutely nothing unfortunate for the lucky male who finds himself in this situation. The privilege of being expected to relinquish all masculine power and serve a woman while being allowed to dress in the clothing of the superior sex maintains a state of prolonged and continual exquisite humiliation, and sexual and psychological bliss.
As you can see I am a male who has embraced the idea of petticoat discipline. As I continue to accept the fact that I am a sissy, my desire to dress and act like a sweet little girl deepens. My next acquisition will be a pair of white, patent leather Mary Janes with a one inch heel. They will look so sweet with my white lace ruffled anklets, lace-topped stockings with large satin bows, and my white lace and satin Communion-style dress and petticoats. The dress is short enough to expose my silk, ruffled panties.
My other favorite type of fashion is a traditional French maid uniform. This would be my working uniform and would most likely require heels appropriate to the task. Higher heels for general standby service, and light duty such as ironing, and more utilitarian footwear for heavy housework. Actually the piece of the working uniform that excites me the most is a dainty lace stand-up crown, which when placed on my obviously male head, signifies my proclamation to my superiors and to myself that I am a total sissy.
My purpose in describing this is to convey that whether I am dressed as a little girl or a maid, my inner sissy nature requires that I be in service to a woman. In this state it is the only thing that excites me. I am consumed by the need to submit, serve and emulate. I know that an ongoing relationship requires constant discipline, and training as well as regression into little girlhood in order to maintain the exquisite bondage of enforced feminization. Unfortunately, at this time I am alone in my fantasy but I do long for the day that it can become a reality. That is, to find dominant woman who wants this kind of relationship with a submissive male. At this point I don’t have a clue as to how to accomplish this. I live in southern California, and would appreciate any thoughts.
Thank you for the opportunity to express my needs and desires and my gratitude for your forum. I love every bit of your site, and would enjoy seeing more pictures of sissies in their blissful environments. Also, the letters are wonderful.
In submission,
Thank you for the compliments, and I am glad that you are finding the site beneficial. I don’t know how you would proceed in Southern California, but you have described the bliss of submissive petticoating, which so many males seem to find, very well.
I don’t care much for the sight of heels, especially on the kind of little girl shoes that you describe, but I suppose that is just a matter of individual preference.
Welcome back to the sensibly petticoated pages of PDQ, and I hope that you enjoy the current issue.



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My Sweet Little Sister
from Helen

Good day Susan,
I am at the house of my boyfriend and I am using his computer to write to you. He is out on business, but he helped me get his computer up and running, so he is well aware that I may be writing. We live in the United States. ‘Alan’ lives in the city and has a well-paying job, while I live in the country and work from home. We see each often, and this is why I am writing.
He alerted me to your site, and we have had much fun reading the various letters and how things ‘got done’ in the old days “across the pond.” He came to visit awhile back and we decided to see if any of my old clothes fit him, and we were pleased that some did. Mostly unisex fitness attire, but it did give me an idea as to his sizing compared to my old clothes. I have lost a lot of weight, but have kept my old ones since I may need them later, if I regain the weight. He left for the city and we put it behind us. Or so he thought…
Upon his next visit, I waited until he had undressed to take a shower and put his clothes in the hamper, but also removed his pajamas from sight. When he came out complaining, I said he had clean clothes hanging up on the door. He became irate when all he found was a floral nightie! “It fits, you need it, and I like it on you.” He was mad, but I just laughed at his anger and went to bed.
The next day, he got set to go for his walk, and when he returned, I told him he had failed to do something trivial, and it resulted in my placing him over my knee for a sound bare hand to his fully bare bottom. I then told him he had to get dressed, and that his clothes were laid out for him. It was a dress outfit. When he complained, I told him how I always wanted a sister, and that he was it!
We spent the day going through my things, and after much time I was able to see which clothes he could fit into. I then told him that from now on, he would be my little kid sister when he visits, if I see fit. It upset him for a time, but then he saw the humor in it and all was fine. We also agreed that if company came, unlike some of your stories, there would be no children allowed to see him in this attire. With the ground rules set, I also informed him that if any of my female guests get offended, that spanking privileges will be granted. He understood and all was fine.
We have had a few visitors from time to time, and we all had a wonderful time. Alan has had times where a woman his age or younger has decided that he deserved a sound spanking – bare hand only. It is very embarrassing for a grown man to be treated this way by a woman several years his junior, but that is the whole idea – it is meant to put him in his proper place.
One woman even went so far as to bring a baby’s bottle with her, and told him if he acted as one he would have to be treated as one. I took her advice and now always have one at the ready as well, and I have informed him that I would have to find proper thick diapers for a person his size. Alan is now happy and content as my younger sister or baby, and knows his place when he visits.

We both enjoy your column and I only hope that you can continue this fine publication for quite some time. I plan to keep him in tow whenever he decides to visit, and he knows that there is very little chance that anyone in my area will ever see anyone in the city, so as to cause any problems with his job. That is my primary concern, since this is to be between us and any visitors, and all in fun. I could never jeopardize his career.
Thank you for letting me share my story. Alan has since returned and agrees with my assessment. He wants me to add that while it is embarrassing, it is all good-natured fun, and that he sometimes needs a diversion from his hectic job and that this is a way to be someone else for awhile. I love my ‘ little sister’!

It sounds like a petticoat discipline success story where you are both very happy with the result. Congratulations on handling things so well. I bet Alan would not want your relationship any other way, and I am sure that you would find that he would love to be babied. Try a dummy or soother as well as his bottle and tell me how things are progressing.

Females in Control…Males in Dresses…The Future!

Changing males for the Better!

Men at the Pool!

Many Men today are realizing what the future will be.  As Women and Girls continue to excel….many boys are just wasting time and becoming complacent, and “Useless”.  The Smart women are seeing this and leading the way to the future, which will be run by Women.  Men and boys will be relegated to Femininity, and as “Helpers” to women.

Starting boys off in their new Direction!

The Girls are taking on the once” male only” Domain!


So nice when boys are colorfully expressing themselves!   He is so Cute with his pink hair, and those purple tights go so well with his dress!

Girls are learning how to Compete and be Strong!   Building their Strength and Stamina!


Many boys are learning for the first time, the silkiness of nylon, and the coolness of a skirt!

Jack and I had a great time on Saturday!

While Girls are learning about “head-banging” and being Assertive and even Aggressive!


Boys are now Competing in Beauty Pageants!

The first annual Dress Like Your Sister Pageant was a huge success. Boys showed up dressed from head to toe in their sister's clothes. The boys who volunteered would soon find out that it would not be so easy to go back to being a boy the following week. Most of them were ridiculed so much that they started dressing for school like girls, started referring to themselves with girl names, and begged their parents to let them continue being girls.

And Girls are battling it out on the Football Field1


As these Trends continue, it is becoming evident that many mothers have taken a keen interest in making their sons the prettiest Prissy boys that they can possibly be!

And now, more Girls are playing football and starting to play against the boys as well!


From the PDQ Website:

Petticoating Worked Wonders with my Son
from Jackie

Dear Susan,
Hi my name is Jackie, and I would like to share my experience with the use of petticoat punishment on my son Michael. I think this is a
wonderful way of punishing unruly boys, and it worked wonders for my son. I suppose I should start at the beginning of why I started using petticoating, and then describe the results I have achieved. When my son was 3 years old his father (my husband) Jack passed away, this had a great impact on my son because he didn’t have a strong father figure to support him and his sister Anne, and to discipline them. I tried my best but he was getting in to fights at school, looking up his sister’s dress, and being careless around the house, and by the time he was 12 I had run out of ideas. I tried spankings, taking away toys and privileges, but nothing worked.
Finally one day I was having lunch with a friend and she told me about an article discussing petticoat punishment she had read from the UK (we live in the USA), I had never heard about it, but I was desperate and asked her to drop the article off so I could read it. A few days later I read the article. I was a little skeptical, but decided I would give it a try the next time my son misbehaved. One day my son was teasing his sister, who is a year younger than him. When my daughter came to me crying, I was so mad that I decided that instead of spanking I would use petticoating. I took him into her bedroom, looked in a drawer, and took out a pair of pink panties, white tights and a dress from his sister’s clothes, and told him to put them on.
He looked at me and started to fuss, but as soon as I told him that next time one of his friends was over I would talk about how nice he looked in Anne’s clothes, he began to cry and starting putting on the tights. After he was done I brought him a pair of fussy lace-trimmed ankle socks, and single strap, very shiny girls’ party shoes. I then took all his clothes out of his room and replaced them with tights I had bought (pink, yellow, red, white, and blue), some skirts (various colors), and pretty dresses mostly in flower patterns etc…than I told him if he didn’t behave then this is his punishment, and that I might even take him out to the store like this.
Next I brought him in the room where his sister was playing, and she started laughing and giggling at him when she saw his attire – he blushed with embarrassment at his thoroughly deserved comeuppance. I explained that this is how he was going to be punished in the future, and that she wasn’t supposed to tell anyone. She understood, and I than made him play nicely with her and her dolls. Slowly petticoating worked its magic: every time he did something unacceptable, I dressed him tights, little girls’ ‘unmentionables’, and a dress.
By the time my son was 15 he was a well-behaved, obedient child! I owe it all to petticoating. He never again picked on his sister, or got in fights at school, because he knew what would happen. After I found this site I wanted every mother out there to know that it works, and works well. The embarrassment that my son felt was enough to make him think twice about doing no good. And for those of you worried that your son will turn out to be crazy, or anti-social, or gay, none of this happened to my son. He’s 17, has a girlfriend whom he dotes on, plays sports, and has many friends. For all you mothers with sons who are out of control try this out: you’ll be happy with the results!
Keep up the good work,

Congratulations Jackie, it sounds like your efforts have been a complete success. My best wishes to your whole family.



Mother & Son!

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From the PDQ Website!


Dear Nanny Susan,
Thank you so much for giving me an idea which worked just brilliantly! I am a relatively young mother (35), separated from my husband, and had never heard of petticoat discipline. Now that I have seen how effective it is, I am a born-again convert!
I have twelve year old twins, Amanda, and her twin brother Leslie. Leslie has always complained about having a sissy name, but was quite well behaved until recently. However as the children approached their twelfth birthday, he became much more noisy and disobedient, and his bedroom was just a disgrace, whereas before it had been at least half tidy.
The last straw was when the two of them were looking through one of our old photograph albums, which they love doing. They came upon a picture of the two of them taken at Christmas seven or eight years ago, with Leslie wearing neatly pressed shorts, long socks and a white shirt, and Amanda in one of those lovely red velvet frocks that little girls wear at Christmas, in a ‘bishop’ style without a waist, and with a large white lace collar. She was smiling happily, and holding out the hem of her dress on each side, and she looked beautiful. Anyway, because these days at home she usually just wears jeans and a sweater, Leslie started to tease her, and to laugh at the photograph. Amanda almost tore it up in her anger, but I took the album away and told them to behave themselves.
Then reading your advertisement gave me an idea for this Christmas. I went to my milliner and told her I needed a really sweet red velvet Christmas dress for Leslie, and why. She has no great liking for the boys in our village, and met my order with a smile of approval, in fact I got the impression that petticoat discipline was something that she had encountered many times in the past.
It took her less than a week, because she happily put other work aside, and the result was a really lovely creation, hanging from the shoulders to about four inches above the knee, in the softest red velvet, with a large floppy lace collar, and a big red silk bow at the neck like one might see on a child’s teddy bear. It was exactly what I wanted, and would match perfectly with certain other little gifts that I had bought for Leslie.
Of course there were lots of trembling tears on Christmas morning when he was introduced to his gorgeous Christmas frock, but I got him into it by threatening that otherwise Amanda would tell all her friends that he likes to wear frilly knickers under his shorts when at home. Since the other children see him as a bit of a sissy anyway (because of his name, and he is no good at football) I knew that this would do the trick.
So the children began to unwrap their presents, Amanda flushed with mischievous delight, in her usual jeans and a woollen sweater, and poor Leslie, flushed with shameful humiliation in his red velvet dress with his boys’ socks and shoes. He nearly fainted when he opened one box to find a really lovely girls’ undie set which my milliner had had in a cupboard for ages, and which she was happy to give me. It consisted of a soft banlon lacy-knit girl’s vest, with a little baby-blue bow at the neck, long-legged silken nylon knickers with a gathered ruffle of lace around each leg, and a full little girl’s slip, the embroidered hem all bows and flowers, of the same material.
He tried to claim that these gifts must be for Amanda (!) but before I could say anything, she told him not to be ridiculous, and that they were obviously to go with his new dress. He was ordered to unwrap another box which lay in front of him. When he opened it up and unwapped the tissue paper, he discovered to his intense shame a pair of round toed single strap shoes, in red velvet, which would match the dress perfectly. He was close to tears when Amanda asked if he could wear his new clothes now. I agreed, and told her to get him ready. She led him by the hand, like a little child, into her bedroom. I overheard some hissing whispers and a few sobs, and eventually he emerged all done up in his new Christmas outfit. Amanda had even found a pair of white ankle socks of hers for him to wear with his new shoes.
We traditionally go over to my sister’s house for Christmas dinner, and there are always lots of presents, because there are other relatives there as well. I told the children to get ready, and Leslie thought he would be able to put on his boy’s clothes. I told him firmly that I expected him to go there as he was, and that his cousins would think he looked very nice. I told him I even had a wig that would fit him, with sausage curls and a big bow if he wanted to look more like a girl – which reduced Amanda to a fit of the giggles. I didn’t have such a wig, actually, but I knew that the very thought would give his sister even more enjoyment.
He ran into his bedroom and slammed the door, and I could hear him on his bed crying. I relented, and said that he could stay at home, and that I would explain that he was not feeling well. Still, I wanted him to remain in his pretty Christmas outfit – that dress had been quite expensive – so I made sure that it was well buttoned up at the back of the neck so that he couldn’t take it off. Then, while Amanda and I made him raise his skirts, I also sewed some thread between his pretty knickers and vest, so that he could not escape from them. Amanda herself thought of a finishing touch, and a thread of cotton was looped through his socks and the strap of his red velvet shoes, so that he could not take off his footwear either.
He was told that there was some of yesterday’s salad in the fridge, and some biscuits in the biscuit tin, and Amanda craftily put her videotape of ‘The Red Shoes’ on the television, that wonderful ballet film with Moira Shearer which girls love so much. Leslie had always turned up his nose at it, but he was told that this time he would have to tell us all about the film when we got home, to make sure that he watched it with proper attention.
And so we left, and had a wonderful afternoon at my sister Sandra’s place. When we got home he was sitting in the living room looking very sorry for himself, with his legs crossed. We told him that little girls shouldn’t sit like that, and he replied that he needed to go to the loo, but couldn’t. I told him he would have to ask Amanda if she would remove the thread between his vest and frilly pants, but she just pretended to ignore him. Eventually he was trembling and begging her to let him go, and so, taking pity on him, she quickly pulled up his dress and slip, and cut the thread.
Of course there were some really good Christmas presents for him that we had brought home, but he wasn’t allowed to have them at once. Apart from his dainty new clothes, I had included a baby sleep-a-bye doll with a woolly pink dress and knickers, and a mop of blonde curls, as a Christmas present, so he had enough presents for the moment. He was told that he would get his other presents gradually over the next year, when Amanda decided that he had been a good boy. And if he was a naughty boy, then…well Nanny Susan, I am sure you can imagine what Amanda will decide then.
His behaviour since Christmas Day has been exemplary, and Amanda could not wish for a more well-mannered and respectful brother. He will have grown a bit, but I am sure that his velvet dress will see service next Christmas as well, and it will be another Christmas morning in petticoats. However, I will probably have to let him go out to Christmas dinner in his boy’s clothes, although, as Amanda has pointed out, he could still wear pretty lacy girls’ undies under his shirt and pants, which will ensure that he behaves himself with his cousins. Anyway, I am sorry that this letter is so long, but I couldn’t wait to write and tell you that you have taught one modern mother something already!
Mrs Sally W. (Wiltshire)

Well, I don’t know what to say, except congratulations, you are certainly a fast learner! This is a wonderful letter, which I will really treasure, and I am sure that Leslie will be a much better – and neater – boy from now on. Please keep us informed of his progress, and definitely write again next Christmas.

Mommy and me

A Very Good Point!  From PDQ Website!

From M. Winnington
What a great site, Susan. My son, aged 12, attends ballet lessons where he has to wear black tights. It was impossible to buy proper boys’ ballet tights locally, so in the end I got him a pair of suitable women’s tights to wear to ballet. At first my son hated wearing tights, but he soon got used to tights, and actually likes wearing them now.
Going to ballet classes has helped him overcome silly prejudices about male and female dress. Males should be encouraged to explore their feminine side…what better way to start than by trying on a lovely soft stretchy pair of tights?
What better way indeed? And, apart from cold weather, which is an excuse that some crafty mothers use, there would be no better reason than a direct appreciation of ballet. Tights feel funny to a boy at first, but they quickly grow to like them. Nevertheless, the very clinging tightness imparts a feeling of control, so that the benefits of petticoat discipline are not lost.

Pretty Pageant Gurl, he won wearing his Sisters Prom Gown

With the HUGE increase in Girls and Women playing Football….we will need Cheerleaders for those Teams!  Here is the beginning of that Need!!

"Patter cake, patter cake..." | by rachelboomboom2003

He was a cheerleader.

Keresa Carrington

He's a cheerleader


Wearing matching outfit to the girlfriend on Halloween = wow!

Boys can be cheerleaders too.

Wearing Aunties old cheering uniform.

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Michelle Deere

A cheerleader and Super Girl!

I think the Women are Enjoying the Pretty men!




Male Beauty!

Wives Feminizing husbands – The New Age Lifestyle

We know who’s wearing the dresses these days!



The Changes in Front of Our Eyes!

Changes are surely happening.  With the Encouragement of Women, more and more men and boys are now Embracing their Femininity!  This Posting will Focus on what Changes can occur in the male.  There are Before and After Photos, totally abolishing the notion that men and boys cannot be Pretty and Sweet.  There are also three posting from the PDQ Website from November 2019 backing up the Facts that Women are indeed changing men and boys for the Betterment of Society!

art by Juan Puyal, dialogue by me

from Tony

Dear Auntie Helga,

I like your website and have been reading it for a couple of years even before getting to be a sissymaid for my wife. When I read about men feminized by their wives it drove me crazy inside. I also loved the look of sissies wearing traditional maid uniforms showing them vacuuming and cleaning for their wives. Jackie and I have been married for 22 years putting us in our mid forties. I never tried to wear Jackie’s clothes and had no interest in what she wore as nice as it was. Instead I wanted my own but had no idea how to introduce the subject. One night when we came home from a party after having a few drinks I built up the courage to ask Jackie what she would think if I took over the housework for her. She laughed thinking I must of had too much to drink yet she did answer with it’s yours baby.

I talked with her about a trend I read about where women were allowing their husbands to take over the housework for them and in many cases the men became maids. Jackie gave me a no way really. So I showed her a few pictures of men wearing those black and white maid uniforms with some in blue and others in a soft pink. Jackie was interested in what she was seeing which led to conversation the next day. At breakfast Jackie asked me if I remembered what I asked her the night before or was I too drunk. Before I answered Jackie repeated the maid idea. I confirmed remembering and showing her the pictures which she replied good to leading me to believe she also thought more about it.

We talked about it more looking at the pictures again before Jackie approved the idea. My heart jumped a beat hearing Jackie tell me she liked the idea in a way. Jackie asked me if I ever wore or tried on her clothes before which I said no to as I wrote above. I guess Jackie was wanting to know if she married a crossdresser who had kept this from her all our lives. Jackie asked me to pick out a picture of what I thought was going to work best for us. I was careful to pick out a well groomed sissymaid in a traditional uniform and not the sissy dress type knowing Jackie would not approve. Jackie wanted to know how feminine I thought I should look for her or was I just wanting to wear a maid uniform and look like me in it. We looked at wigs styles and shoes along with maid uniforms building a picture in Jackie’s mind.

Jumping ahead, a week later I became Jackie’s maid which she enjoyed far more than we thought possible. I cooked, cleaned, laundered, ironed and sewed for her which took a few months to learn. Jackie was and still is a very happy wife pointed out by her friends. Jackie also started to read about female led relationships, sissymaids, Mistresses and dominant women and crossdressing couples. At least once a week Jackie had a new idea to try out. Jackie also decided to have me in chastity about a month after I became her maid to my surprise. My wife became my Mistress just as I had read about many times which wasn’t my plan. Thanks to a woman Jackie met she now wants me to have breast implants and laser treatments so I don’t have to shave anymore. Jackie who once was my darling wife decided if I was going to be her maid I was going to look like one too.

Auntie Helga is there anything I can do to prevent breast implants? Can a Mistress go too far or is that what a Mistress does?

Don’t get me wrong I love Jackie and living as her maid considering I asked for it. Do I have to be feminine too?

Love to hear from you soon.


Thank you for your letter Tony and for being a faithful reader. Many males enjoy the concept of being a sissymaid for their loving wife and the uniforms as well are wonderful to wear. Your introduction to her went well, maybe too well if I read your concerns correctly.

Seriously? What wife wouldn’t want a maid with benefits? Quite often when a couple makes a change to this lifestyle it not only changes the mode of dress but the roles each partner takes on, many wives learn to appreciate quite quickly having a submissive husband.

No she isn’t going to far, she is your Mistress and things seem to be changing even more radically and I can understand how this might alarm you some. Once you have given her the power over you to make you her feminized maid and to submit to her totally, well, then she can pretty much do as she wishes including breast implants, a Mistress’s power over her sissymaid is total. Of course you have to be what she desires and if that means feminine too, then so be it, really, its not that big a deal, you love her, she loves you, you are not going to leave so it makes sense to do what all sissymaids do, obey their Mistresses.

Auntie Helga


My boyfriend looks like my twin

This is from France!    Isn’t it Amazing just how Adorable and Sweet Feminine boys are becoming!  No more Soccer for these two boys!

More and more mothers are entering their sons into Womanless Beauty Pageants, or their “Offshoot”, Boys Beauty Pageants.  From what I understand on these Boy Pageants, it all started when some mothers got together and decided to make “Boy Only” Pageants!  Can you imagine the “thrill” that a bunch of Champion Girls could get if they were able to come to one of these Pageants and see the boys all decked out in the frilliest of dresses, makeup and dainty shoes and such, while these Girls would be wearing jerseys, jeans and sneakers!  Now that is a True “Turnabout”!

Pageant Makeover. He won.

Many boys want to be Princesses and be Pretty!

From football player, to Pretty “New Age: young man!

He is Truly a Very Pretty young man!

Another football player turned into a Lovely Modern man.  I especially like seeing the once “Macho” Sports playing boys transformed into the Pretty, and Docile “New Age” male!

I am sure his mother encouraged this change.  Don’t you just LOVE his Pretty pink dress?

Teaching the boy to hold out his skirt is so Delightful!

Once again, his mother must have been instrumental in his change.  She apparently has him in pantyhose as well, which I think is a “Critical” absolute for a male.  The more delicate garments on the boys, the better!

Could his skirt be any shorter?   He is Adorable!

Mother must have relished putting him in this short dress!

Powder blue is for boys!!!

From “macho” to Dainty!   Love it!

He looks so Delicate!   I hope a Nice “Tomboy” appreciates his Beauty!

Short skirts are so Cute on young boys!

Love his white dress!

His legs are to “Die” for!

Boys can be so Pretty!  It is about time they get to express their Femininity!

Love those legs, with his short dress!

From football to reading in a pretty dress!

Mother most be so Proud of her Pretty son!

Love the Pretty ribbon in his hair!

I imagine this is from his ballet class???

So Cute!

I found this photo on Facebook a few years go, and since originally sharing it online, I’ve seen many naysayers protesting “no WAY is that a boy!” Well, I found my way back to the relative’s Facebook page where I found it, located his Mom’s Facebook, and found roughly contemporary “boy” pics of him, one of which can be seen in the little inset. Clearly the same person.

I found this photo on Facebook a few years go, and since originally sharing it online, I've seen many naysayers protesting "no WAY is that a boy!" Well, I found my way back to the relative's Facebook page where I found it, located his Mom's Facebook, and found roughly contemporary "boy" pics of him, one of which can be seen in the little inset. Clearly the same person.

I LOVE his pink mini dress and that Cute little purse that matches his boots!

Mother did a Wonderful job with her Pretty “Princess”!

He looks so “sassy” in that red mini skirt!

Heels and hose, what many “New Age” boys are wearing daily!

Such a “Prize” for an Independent Tomboy!

from Wendy

Dear Helga,

Since I have gradually implemented petticoat discipline into our lives about two years ago everything could not be better for myself and Tammy. She has become a wonderful sissy and serves me as she should. While I’m constantly looking for new avenues for reinforcement for her, I have been ultra conservative for fear of spoiling a good thing.

Awhile ago you mentioned humiliation as an excellent tool in the process of feminization. I have kept that in mind however never used it. Only once at our beginning when Tammy refused to wear a skirt l marched her into a VS store for a bra fitting and she was in a skirt as soon as we got home. My friend Shelly has used humiliation on her Barbie from the very start with fabulous results and swears by it. I have now decided to start Tammy with humiliation reinforcement.

While I was always very careful to keep our secret, my sister and her family, our doctors, Kelly at the VS store, and now Shelly are about the only ones that know about Tammy, and I’m sure there a few sales associates have a good idea about about my sissy. Well I’ve decided host a small New Year’s Eve dinner party and thought what could be a better time to have Tammy looking her feminine best with a trip to the salon where I go. I called the receptionist and booked an appointment for myself and Tammy early New Years Eve day. I told Tammy the day before that she had an appointment with me for the works at the salon where I have been going for years, and she said me too? and I said yes you need some work done.

The morning of our appointments I told Tammy she was to wear a bra and pantie set which surprised her because I had never put her in a bra outside the house, panties always but never a bra. I have been a regular at the salon for about 10 years and when we arrived the receptionist said hi Wendy you’re on the book for you and Tammy. I quietly said yes that’s right this is Tammy. She didn’t miss a beat and said great I have you with Suzie with whom I’m a regular and Tammy with Linda. Suzie and Linda knew right away what was going on and walked us towards the back of the salon and said what would you like for Tammy? I told Linda I would like Tammy to have a manicure with quarter inch acrylic nails finished in bright cherry red, a petty, and her eye brows done. Tammy at this point looked about the color of cherry red polish she was about to get. Linda took Tammy by the hand and said I’ll take good care of you and walked her behind a privacy partition.

I went to Suzie’s station and sat down thinking why have I waited so long for this humiliation reinforcement? Suzie sat down, smiling and said so how long has Tammy been your sissy? I told her about 2 years and she said wow don’t you love having a sissy and how did you do it? I told her it just started with a a pair of panties, bedroom games, reading Petticoating Discipline Quarterly and Put Him In Panties by Emily Masters, and once I started her she fell right in line and I had her in a bra, skirts, and nighties in no time. There was no going back and she is now feminized into my sissy that serves me. I then told her Tammy being hers today should have probably happened sooner.

Suzie said that they love doing sissies because they are so demure, obedient to their partners, and so submissive to work on. I asked are there a lot of sissies that come in, to which she said they get about one a week and she has 4 regulars. Suzie also said around Halloween they are swamped with guys that are perfect candidates to be feminized, and actually women have started their husbands and boyfriends to be feminized dressing them for Halloween parties as their sissy start.

The aesthetician had done me first and as Suzie did my nails she just had to ask, so who’s in charge in the bedroom? I told her that I’m in charge everywhere and sex is the way I want it, and believe me Tammy is one happy sissy, and we both couldn’t be happier in with our sex lives. Just then Linda came over and said while Tammy is getting her eyebrows done would you like her to have her ears pierced? I said oh yes! I’ve wanted her to have those done for quite sometime I hope she will cooperate. Linda said there won’t be any or problem Tammy has a set of nails on, getting her eyebrows done, and she’s wearing a bra, do you want gold or silver studs? We all laughed and I said go with the gold studs, Linda walked away and said done!

I couldn’t wait to see Tammy and when she was finished Linda said come on back and see what we have done. It was a wonderful surprise to seeing just how much more feminine Tammy looked with her eyebrows shaped, her stud earrings in. Her nails were just the right length and the brightest red with her toes to match. The three of us looking at my sissy was the perfect humiliation reinforcement, and I just had to say “Tammy you’re going to be extra careful putting on your stockings with your new nails”.

Linda said should we now count on Tammy to see us on a regular schedule? To which I said absolutely! She will now be on the same 3 week schedule as me. Suzie and Linda gave us our tickets and there’s no charge for the piercing Tammy now that you’re going to be a regular with me. Tammy and I tipped Suzie and Linda, settled our accounts with the receptionist while booking again in 3 weeks. When we got home Tammy slipped into a skirt and we started working on dinner for the party


Thank you for your letter Wendy. A fantastic training session, I imagine Tammy learned quite the lesson that day, humiliation can be very powerful. What super friends at the salon, such good sports and seem to really love teasing sissies. Also, how fascinating that they have done so many of them, and this is just one salon… the good news is spreading!


From “macho” to ravishing!   Just look at his legs!

Daddi is so much Cuter in a Pretty dress!

So many men really LOVE wearing sexy lingerie!

Another Pretty Daddi!

From “tough” to “Demure”!

Boys love to show off their pretty legs!

A very nice Improvement!

So many boys just Love to wear the Cutest dresses!

He must have been the “Winner”.   Mother must be so Proud!

No more Video games, need to use that time to practice makeup!

from Patrick

Dear Auntie Helga,

I met this lady online who told me about her son that she taught to be her maid. It all sounded crazy to me at first except I could tell she was honest with me. I asked her a few times if her son wanted to be her maid and the answer was not at the beginning. The lady who I will call Mary so as not to share her real name talked to me about how lots of boys and men are maids today. I learned it isn’t normal for guys to want to be maids but once they get started they become really good at it. Mary also let me know her son always wears a maid uniform except when they go out of the house then he wears what she wears. It all surprised me yet I wanted to learn more for some reason. One night I talked to my mom at dinner about Mary and her son. My mom thought it was a strange thing for a son to be his mother’s maid and dress as a woman other times too.

One day Mary asked me if I wanted to try it as a maid for my mother. I made all kinds of excuses about my mom not allowing it and me not looking good in ladies clothing. Mary was convinced most boys and men could be maids if they wanted to learn. I wasn’t sure after I had already talked to my mom about the conversation with Mary. It was something I liked to talk about with Mary but not be a maid. The next day Mary offered to help me or talk with my mom if I wanted her help. She insisted I try it just to say I liked it or I didn’t. I was concerned if I didn’t like it but my mom did I might let her down. Mary assured me my mom would give me credit for at least trying it and probably not be angry at all. I asked Mary if her son had to wear a sissy maid dress or a real maid uniform. She told me he had both but started with a real maid uniform for daily chores. Mary felt the sissy dress was more for lighter days or for serving guests.

I had so much information in my head however it wasn’t easy to ask my mom. Mary gave me a few ideas since my mom already knew about Mary and her son. So I asked my mom if I could help her with the laundry the next day. She was glad I wanted to help so she showed me how to use the washer and dryer. We folded the laundry together and put it all away. I brought up Mary again only this time my mom had more to say about Mary’s son as a maid. She wanted to know how old he was and when he started. Mary told me she started her son at 16 so at 19 he was still her maid. I turned 20 a few months ago so our ages are similar. My mom thought it was different for a son to be his mother’s maid then she asked me if I wanted to try it out too. I blushed red as my hands shook and the sweat ran down my cheeks. My mom put her hand on my shoulder to let me know it was fine I didn’t have to be shy or scared. I asked my mom if it was too much to ask forget about it. My mom said not at all we could give it a try if I wanted it that much.

I had to admit to my mom there was a driving force in me that was hard to explain. We sat down to make a list and my mom measured me since men’s and women’s sizes are not the same she said to me. My mom asked me if Mary’s son wore women’s under garments as well. I knew he did as I asked Mary many questions. My mom wanted to know if I wanted to go with her shopping or just let her pick out what she thought was best. I chickened out so my mom went shopping yesterday and today. When I talked with Mary she was pleased I was willing to at least try maid life. Mary gave me a few pointers about the importance of looking feminine but asked me to check with my mom. I wasn’t sure about shaving myself like legs, chest and armpits so I called my mom on her cell. My mom was at the uniform supplier when I called which surprised me. She thought it was a good idea I have a bath then shave from neck to toe. I asked if she was sure I needed to go that far and the answer was she thought so.

I did what my mom said so by the time she came home I was clean of hair from neck to toe which felt weird. My mom took all the bags to my bedroom then she left me to try it all on and call her if I wanted help. My hands shook as I felt scared and nervous all of a sudden. I put on a pair of the panties then continued until I was mostly dressed in the uniform dress. My mom called to see if I wanted some help and I was glad she did since I was scared to call her. She walked it with a positive attitude when I thought she would laugh at me. My mom made a few adjustments then showed me how to put the fake boobs in my bra properly. I had no idea there was a right and left or top and bottom. My mom bought me a pair of white maid shoes and a pair of white heels in case I wanted to wear heels. She admitted it was all new to her and had not talked with Mary about her son’s preference in shoes.

Within a few minutes my mom said I looked pretty cute and she liked the look oddly enough. My mom asked me what I thought of the clothes and how they felt on my smooth skin. I didn’t think my mom noticed my no hair look but she did right away. My mom went to get one of her old wigs for me to try on which felt really weird to me. She asked me if I wanted to grow my hair then have it cut like a woman’s or just wear a wig. We decided to keep the wig for now and just let me hair grow for a few months.

Auntie Helga is it ok for me to just be my mom’s maid or will I have to be her sissymaid in the future? My mom is willing to try anything as long as it makes me happy. The only thing my mom warned me about was in time she might like me as her maid more than I do. I thought it was nice she said that to me just in case I ever have second thoughts. My mom did say once my hair gets long enough we should have it colored and styled more like a maid. She felt my goal should be to learn about being a maid and how to look like one as well if I am as serious as she thinks I am about it. Mary advised I let my mom know whatever my mom wants I should just agree since she is now like my boss.

It’s all knew for me that is for sure. The uniform feels weird as I never wore a dress before. My mom figured in a few weeks it will all feel pretty normal to me then she will buy me a few more. I joked to say what if I don’t like the maid thing by then. My mom suggested I give it an honest try before worrying about giving it up. She said I look pretty darn good and she looks forward to helping me learn the work.

I let my mom know that Mary and her son go out as girls when he is not working as her maid. My mom thought it was a big step for a boy or man to go out in public but she said anything is possible. She looked at me then laughed followed by some day she would take me out if I wanted. My mom asked me if I felt a sense of competition with Mary’s son. I guess maybe inside I felt if he could do it I can do it.

Auntie Helga am I doing the right thing with my mom or should it have been with my wife someday? I would love to talk with you about it sometime.

Thank you,

Thank you for your letter Patrick. I really appreciate all the background information, very interesting about Mary starting her son to be her maid at 16, not sure I approve. Now you are embarking on an amazing experience and sharing with your mom in a whole new way. You are so fortunate to have such and understanding mom, adventuress too.

Of course its okay dear, you certainly can be your mom’s maid, becoming her sissymaid will be her decision at some point but it is not a certainty, do you want to be her sissymaid? Once you have the skills to be a great maid, I’m sure your wife will appreciate them and you can become her maid as well.

Auntie Helga


I absolutely want a girlfriend who transforms me this way !!!! (Chloe Sissi)

from Lilly

Dear Auntie Helga,

Last night was a good time with Carol and her friends who I met before as Doug. For them meeting Lilly there was a few minutes of silence until Carol helped me out. I wasn’t sure how to talk or act with them as Lilly. I served them all drinks which helped them and me too. At first I thought what had I gotten myself into however it worked out well as the night went on. Of course they wanted to know why I wanted to be Carol’s maid and girlfriend. Once I explained it to them they thought it was a wonderful idea. One of them wanted to know how feminine Carol made me. Carol asked me if I would show them my panties, hairless body and my chastity device. Then it was very clear to all of them Carol was serious about having a feminized husband.

The night went very well after all of the women were convinced I wanted to be one of them and was not making fun of women with my appearance. I didn’t know some women don’t like crossdressing men or any man who tries to be a woman. I think they mixed it up with drag queens which I am nothing like.

Auntie Helga, I do want to look as much like a woman as possible. I also want to live as a woman with Carol. Going out shopping was not easy for me but I am willing to keep trying until it becomes more natural. I know Carol wants me to look and act like a woman more now that ever before.

Auntie Helga I have a question for you. Carol and the girls joked with me to get breast implants last night. I was very embarrassed and turned red. Carol might have had too much to drink and maybe her friends as well. This morning Carol never mentioned breast implants again. Up until now I have wanted to live as Carol’s maid. She likes the girlfriend part more than I do though. My question is do men get women’s breast implants as sissymaids or maids? I’m not sure how I feel about hearing that from the women.

If you know more about it would you tell me please?

Thank you,

Thank you for your letter Lilly. I am so pleased to hear all about meeting the girls, they seem open and curious, how was that showing them your panties and device?

You are so right about some women being turned off by crossdressers, pretending to be a woman can be confusing to us, but from my experience when presented with a male maid we tend to relax and join in the fun.

Of course many sissymaids and regular male maids show their commitment by taking advantage of the opportunity to have breast implants, since as you noted, you wanted to look as much like a woman as possible this is the next logical step in your progression.

Auntie Helga


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Female POWER…male Compliance!


As the World is Changing, More and More Women are saying…..”We will wear the clothes that make us Comfortable.  Many of us Want feminine boyfriends and husbands that will take care of the home while we are out being the Bread Winners, and Competing with other Strong Women.  The “Day” of male domination is in the “Rear View” mirror.  We want to see men and boys being Pretty, and being Obedient to us Women that are now supporting the family!”


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We can see from the photos above, that the Society is Changing!  50 Years ago, what you see in those photos would have been a ‘Complete Fantasy!”  But now, it is becoming commonplace.

The following is a letter I received from John/Joan from over 20 years ago.  It was a response to a book I had written, a Fiction Book, on Gender Role Reversal.  I do not know how John is these days, we lost contact many years ago, however, I think you will be Amazed at how the Lifestyle was developing over twenty years ago.  We can only imagine the Great Progress that will be made in the next twenty years.  There will be more letters from John/Joan in upcoming Posts!

                                                                                                                             May 8, 1997

Dear Pat:

I read your book, The Experiment” and thought it was one of the best I have read.

The story has a special meaning to me.  Let me explain.  I am a member of the Eulenspiegel Society (t.E. S.) in New York City.  It is an S & M organization in existence for 25 years.  I belong to the Dominant Women/Submissive Men group which meets once a month.  It was at one of these meetings that I met Geraldine (Jerry), a Dominant Lesbian.  We started going out together when she found out I was taking Female Hormones.  Jerry is a Captain in the U.S. Army Reserve and is a champion body builder – pressing and weight lifting.  Me, I am a hairdresser.  I gave the book to her after I read it and she was delighted with the story, to say the least.  She told me when I write to tell you that she loved your reference on the American Gladiators as she has made tapes of all their programs.  I might add that I saw these tapes, and my favorite Gladiators are Ice and Sky (can you imagine being held and squeezed in their arms?),

I realize your book is fiction, but if I can be so bold, let me give you some real life background ideas from a submissive man’s viewpoint that you might use in a future book.

In your story you mentioned that the men who were injected with Female Hormones had an erection when the Women made love to them.  I can tell you in all honesty that after taking Female Hormone injections and pills for over a year, that my penis no longer can get an erection under any situations.  Now when I make love, I do so ads a woman would; that is I use my tongue and Jerry uses a Strap On Dildo.  When she penetrates me at first, I feel like crying, but this soon changes to a feeling of joy and contentment, as my whole body starts tingling, and she brings me to one orgasm after another.  From her end, she seems to gather strength as she pumps me and I let out my love cries for her.  I find during our love making, that I seem to find my contentment in knowing that I am pleasing her.  Incidentally, another side effect of the Hormones I am taking is that I get a wet period each month lasting three to four days.  Although it is not a menstrual period as such, I find the need to wear a sanitary napkin to absorb the flow.  Jerry, of course, thinks it is great because I am becoming more of a woman in her eyes.  By the way, as I am writing this, it is my time of the month, my second day.

One part of your book I was a little disappointed in was the Wedding of General Susan Rift and Captain Bret.  I had hoped you would have described Bret’s Wedding dress in more detail, as well as his Bride’s maids gowns; Jerry of course was interested in General Rift’s tuxedo.  I have a personal interest in this.  Jerry recently asked me to marry her and become her wife.  I of course said YES!  I will be changing my name and taking hers which we both feel is proper.  Can you imagine Mrs. Joan **** (my feminine name is Joan).  So I will be shopping for a Wedding Gown in the fall.  At that time I will be living as a woman full time since the Doctor said my breasts will be much more developed.

Once again, Kudos on a great book!

If I or Jerry can be of any assistance for real life background ideas, please write or call at the address below.


John (Joan)


More and more Women are Enjoying dressing up their men!

open your mind and you and your partner can have more fun than you realize ♥♥♥♥♥ B-)

Womanless Makeover - Bing

More young Girls than ever are now playing Competitive Sports!

Super 25 Preseason Girls Basketball: No. 24 New Hope Academy

More boys than ever are now competing in Beauty Contests!

Sissi Chloe

Girls are Enjoying the Power they get from Competing!

Creating Sports Banners | SIGMA Blog

Boys are so perplexed in trying to do what Girls had done for “Ages”!

soeur et frère dans un jeu de féminisation

By learning how to Compete at an early age, Girls will go on to be tomorrow’s Leaders!

Meet the 2018-19 MDI Girls Varsity Basketball Team [PHOTOS]

While Girls are playing Competitive Sports, boys are competing in Beauty Pageants!

Is this a Prelude to the Future?

Many Strong Feminists believe that the Role Reversal needs to start at an early age!

Katniss and Effie Trinket...The Hunger Games

Are these the jobs that men have to look forward to in the Future?

It is becoming more Evident who is Wearing the Pants these days!

A Salute to a Beautiful father and husband – Mary Jane!

This is actually a Very Beautiful story, of what I know of it.  Mary Jane is a former soldier.  Elizabeth Loves him dearly, I believe she is an Optometrist, and the Bread Winner.  As you can see, they Love each other dearly, and he stays at home raising their daughter, and looking Pretty, while she supports the family!  A True show of Gender Role Reversal and the Delight that it can be!

Cute couple


Girly Boy Gabriel

An inspirational cd couple

Mary Jane with His Daughter!!!

Modern husbands are needed for our working women in charge


A New Age Lifestyle Forum, Just Created!!!

Hello to all the Loyal Followers and Readers of this Blog!   I decided to create a Forum for our Blog in the hope that we could embark on some Discussions on the Empowerment of Women and Girls and  the Femininization of men and boys.  Gender Role Reversal is something that is increasingly becoming more common in Society, and I am hoping that we can get others to join in on the Topics and Issues.


Here is the Link:



I hope to see you on the Forum!


Some Photos for Today!

'We Can Do It!' [Rosie the Riveter], a poster produced by Westinghouse for the US War Production Co-Ordinating Committee, c.1942-43; 'Rosie the Riveter--the strong, competent woman dressed in overalls and bandanna--was introduced as a symbol of patriotic womanhood'. (World Digital Library)

A Nice Girl with her Pretty boyfriend!

A Confident Woman!

So Nice to see boys showing off the pretty legs!

There is just “something” about a Confident Woman in a suit!


So nice when brothers dress up so Prettily!

Isn't it so sweet? My wonderful little brother wants to be a girl, just like his big brother!

Female Confidence….So Invigorating!!!!

Source: Pintrest  Year: N/A  Short hair was a signifier of the mannish lesbian. This woman also has a more masculine style of clothing.

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The Type of Women that will make these Changes are Strong and Assertive Women.  Confident in their own abilities, and knowing what they want from their men!

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Strong Women are indeed Changing Society.  As you look around, more and more Women are now the Breadwinners, and more men are Accepting that they are the “male wives”, taking care of the home and the kids!  Many men are now voluntarily accepting their new Role in the relationships, and becoming the “helpers” to their Bread-winning spouses.  The Women of these hubbies are very Thankful for their maturity in accepting the traditional housewife (husband) Role, and these relationships are symbolized by the Great Love that these spouses have for each other.  The Roles are reversed, but it works for these couples!

So many of these men are doing their best to take care of the house, and in some cases the kids, and in addition, to many of the Wife’s Requests, are doing their best to look nice and Attractive for their Assertive Women.  This is what was expected 60 years ago and beyond for Women to do, when the men were the bread-winners, so now that the Women are the Bread-winners, what is Wrong with this?????  NOTHING!!!!   Male Femininity is Growing, and in most cases, this is a Very Good thing for both Womankind and the Society in general!



As you can see in this series of photos, all these feminine men have a smile on their face.  They are happy to be Wanted, and very happy to be able to be pretty for their Bread-winning Wives.  The Women Enjoy have their Pretty men take care of the home, while they are out making the money!


Many mothers are seeing that their sons want to be Pretty, and therefore, they are supporting them in any way they can.  These are just a few examples.  These boys are so Lucky to have mothers that Love them and allow them to be who they want to be!



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The following two postings are from the March & April editions of PDQ.   This is something that has been a Growing Trend, Women, mothers, helping their sons embrace their Femininity!


Dear Helga,

I’ve worked as a saleswoman in women’s retail every since I graduated from high school about 20 years ago, and a lot of that time I’ve specialized in lingerie, and oh, the stories I could tell. One of the open secrets in the business is how much women’s lingerie is purchased by men for themselves! A day doesn’t go by that I don’t see a man pursuing the panties or slips or bras or stockings etc., with that look in his eyes that tells me that, no matter what he says, he’s not shopping for a wife or girlfriend, but for himself. I learned early on how to tease these men into spending hundreds. Occasionally, we get wives with their husbands shopping for lingerie for the men, but that isn’t very common, and a very small number of times I’ve dealt with women who are in the store with a boyfriend and their husband, buying panties for the hubby. Wow.

But those are tales for another time. You see, I also sometimes work in the girls clothes section, and I wanted to write about something that has just started happening in the past couple of years, and it seemed what I had to say might be of interest to you and maybe your readers. What I’m talking about now are women who are with a son and are shopping for panties and other girls clothes for their boy.

I can’t remember that ever happening until a few years ago, and even now it doesn’t happen a lot, but maybe just once a week or so that I’ve become aware of. It’s amazing how much I learn about them when I serve them, because usually they are quite comfortable telling about what’s going on. Usually, but certainly not always, they are single moms, and the boys are almost always in the 7-10 years old range, but a few women with teenage boys have shown up too. I’ll describe a few of these customers.

The ones I like to serve the most involve women with sons who simply want to be girls. Just last week, for example, I saw a woman shopping while holding the hand of a boy who looked to be about 8. She was looking at blouses and holding them up to the boy to check the fit. When I went over to ask them if they needed any help, she smiled, said yes, and then told her son to tell “the nice saleslady’ why they were there. I could see that the boy was quite shy, and was clinging to his mother more like a preschooler than a boy his age, and I could also see that he was effeminate for a boy his age and with his long hair and soft rather pretty features I was already thinking that he probably was sometimes mistaken for a girl. It took some urging on her part, but finally the boy whispered, then with more urging said a little more clearly, that the reason they were there was because he didn’t want to be a boy anymore, he wanted to be a girl. His mother then told me that it seemed he had always felt that way, but that it had taken her until very recently to really accept the truth of the situation. So now, they were shopping for the first time for girls clothes for him.

I led them to some changing rooms, and over the next hour or so brought them piles of panties and skirts and blouses and dresses for him to try on. What was so sweet about it was seeing him look at himself in the mirror each time he tried on something new. It was clear that he really loved seeing how he looked in just about everything. He’d look at himself, and smile, and twirl while looking, and pull up his skirts or dresses to look again at the panties he tried on. His mother could sense how thrilled he was, and she was just beaming as well. I think they ended up buying about a dozen pairs of panties, maybe five skirts, a dozen blouses, and four or five dresses, and when we were done, they just left his boys clothes for me to throw away and he left the store wearing one of his new outfits, and I doubt that anyone seeing him realized that the pretty girl they were seeing was really a boy. I was left feeling wonderful myself, about helping a boy look so pretty and feel so happy.

Since you focus more on petticoat discipline, which is a term I had never heard of until a couple of years ago, I guess I should also describe one of the times I’ve helped women who have brought their sons into the store to be punished by being put into girls clothes. I can’t say that this has happened very much, but when it does it’s pretty memorable. The first time, it was a woman whose son was thirteen. Now that is really unusual, to see a woman shopping with a boy that age. Especially because the boy held his mother’s hand and they were in the teen girls section looking at bras. When I approached them, I could see that his eyes looked like he had been crying. I hung back for a few minutes and overheard him quietly but almost constantly begging his mother not to make him wear a bra and promising over and over that he’d be good and that she didn’t need to do that to him.

Needless to say, I could barely believe what I was hearing. I guess I should explain that he was dressed in a light jacket and pants and a shirt, except that when I finally went up to them to offer to help, I could see that the shirt was really a blouse and the navy blue pants zipped up the side and had no pockets. When I went up to them I could see actual traces of tears on his cheeks, and his mother very directly and matter of fact told me that he had been disobedient at home and had been doing poorly in school to and so she was petticoat punishing him (yes, she used that term). When I got out my tape measure and suggested we go to a changing room, she said it was OK to measure him right there and made him take off his jacket. As I put the tape around his chest I noticed a couple of girls nearby who were staring and giggling at what they were seeing, but then, after I picked out a couple of padded training bras in his size, we did go to a changing room for him to try them on. When we got into the changing room he again started to plead with his mother again, but now he was saying he’d be good about wearing a bra at home if only she wouldn’t make him wear one when they left the store. In fact, he never really stopped begging even while trying on the bras, and when he did that I was also able to see that he was wearing panties underneath his girls pants. I’m sure it won’t surprise you to know that when they finished, having purchased three padded bras for him to wear, she did make him wear one out of the store underneath his blouse and she wouldn’t let him put his jacket on over it.

As I said, I have a lot more stories I can tell that are like these and about some of the men I’ve sold lingerie to, but these should give a sense of some of the more interesting customers I’ve had recently, and I hope you find them interesting, even if you’re not as surprised as I’ve been about them.


Thank you for your letter Cheryl. What a delightful letter and such fascinating experiences you’ve had in this field. I would love to hear more, whatever you wish to share, if you can find the time. I know how much my visitors enjoy reading about those mothers that felt petticoating was right for their sons, that must have given you a special feeling to witness and assist.




Dear Helga,

As I mentioned in my earlier letter, in my work as a saleswoman in the women’s and girl’s clothes department of a large department store, it does seem as if, while still not an every day kind of thing, it is becoming more common to have customers who are women who are buying girls clothes to petticoat their sons. In fact, I’ve had a couple of really interesting instances just in the past two weeks.

The first involves what I’ll call a case of “woke” petticoating. One afternoon a couple of weeks ago I saw a couple of women shopping in the girls clothes section with what turned out to be their seven-year-old son. When I helped them, I learned that the women were married to each other, and they were very progressive in terms of their views on gender and gender identity, and it had been their goal to raise their son Dana (a name they said they chose because it was gender ambiguous) in a “gender open” way. So, instead of referring to Dana as “he”, they called Dana “they”, and had tried to avoid encouraging Dana to be at all boyish. In fact, when I first saw them shopping, I thought Dana was a girl (I’ll call Dana “he” only because using “they” can get confusing). Dana had long, fairly girlish hair, and although it wasn’t in a pony tail or braids or anything like that, it was cut into a girlish style. And his clothes were sort of, but not completely, girlish: regular running shoes, but with pink socks, some blue shorts that were more girlish than boyish in style, and a pink pullover top. I only learned that Dana was really a boy when one of his moms told me that Dana was “boy bodied” (that’s the term they used instead of calling him a boy).

Anyway, what the two moms also told me was that they wanted Dana to experience the whole “spectrum” of gender identities so that Dana could eventually decide for himself on his gender. But what maybe was most interesting about this is that the moms had been homeschooling Dana, but had very recently enrolled him in a very small, private, very progressive, school, where the philosophy of the school matched their views on gender. What that meant, in part, was that all of the “boy bodied” students were taught that anything masculine or boyish is bad, and had to spend half of each month wearing the kinds of clothes that we generally think of as girls clothes. And so, the three of them were shopping for some appropriate clothes for him for school: panties, skirts, blouses, dresses, and girl’s sweaters. A bit surprisingly, I think, Dana wasn’t too pleased with this, and a couple of times said that he would rather wear boys clothes and that he was a boy, not a girl. Needless to say, Dana’s moms were pretty direct in admonishing him when he said that. They rather sternly reminded him that “There’s no such thing as boys and girls. There’s just some people who are more boyish and some who are more girlish, and he might end up as either one or somewhere in the middle.” But they also made it very clear to him that he would be leaving the store wearing some of the clothes they were buying and would be wearing those clothes to school that week. When they left, Dana was wearing some new panties, pink tights, a red skirt, and a very frilly white blouse that buttoned up in back, and had a pink ribbon in his hair. In other words, he then looked completely like a girl.

Then, just yesterday, I had a pretty interesting petticoat discipline customer, which is what reminded me to write to you again. The woman was a very petite, gray-haired, attractive in a school marmish sort of way, older lady who was shopping with her ten-year-old grandson. He was bigger than his grandmother, but was obviously almost terrified of disobeying her, and she was intent on using petticoat discipline on him. When I first went over to help them, she was firmly holding one of his hands in hers while looking through panties with the other, and he was just standing there with his head hanging down and eyes lidded, looking almost as if he was about to cry and his eyes were red as if he actually had been crying within the past few minutes.

Because this happened so recently, I can remember almost all of our exact conversation as I helped them, so maybe I can describe what happened in that way.

“Can I help you?” I asked.

The woman smiled at me, and looked at her grandson and squeezed his hand more tightly. “Tell the nice saleswoman why we’re here, Ryan” she said.

The poor boy could barely look at me he was so embarrassed. “Tell her” his grandmother said, rather sternly this time.

“We’re … buying girls clothes for me” he finally said in a very soft voice.

“And tell her why we’re doing that” his grandmother said.

“Because I’m, uh, I’m being punished for not doing my chores and for trying to bully my younger sister into doing some of my chores for me.”

Then, with some tears starting to actually form in his eyes, he turned to his grandmother and said “Please, grams. Please. I’ve learned my lesson. Really I have. Please don’t make me wear panties. Please.”

Ryan’s grandmother seemed intent on making the whole experience as shameful as possible for him and when he said this her reply was to look at me and laugh and then she said “Ryan! if you think that there is any chance that you are going to get away without being put into panties, you’re sadly mistaken. And not just panties. I guess you don’t get it yet. With this nice woman’s help, I’m going to pick out a pretty dress for you to wear too, and you’re going to wear it home. So now then. Are you going to give me any more trouble, or are you going to be a good boy and wear the pretty clothes that I tell you to wear?”

Ryan looked completely dejected and defeated, and quietly said that he would be a good boy for her. I was just standing there while all this took place, with astonishment at how controlling this small older woman could be with her grandson. I then helped them figure out the right size panties for him and brought them a sampling of different colors and kinds, and the grandmother made Ryan himself pick out six pairs, after holding each pair up against him and commenting on how they would look and feel when he wore them. We then went into a changing room and I brought them a variety of dresses for Ryan to try on, and after his grandmother had selected two of them (and picked one of those, a very pretty and certainly very feminine yellow and white sundress) for him to wear home, we all walked over to the sleepwear section and Ryan’s grandmother picked out a pink nightgown and a pair of Disney princess girls pajamas for him to wear at night.

“That’s right, Ryan” she said, as she picked those out. “THIS is what you’ll be wearing over your panties at night for the next few weeks at least. What do you say, Ryan?”

Ryan actually did start to cry at that point, as he came to realize how much he was going to be petticoated, but all he said was, “I understand Grammy. Thank you.”

As she paid for the items, Ryan’s grandmother asked me if I had many other customers like her who were buying clothes to petticoat their boys. I told her that, quite honestly, although she was far from the first, it wasn’t very common. She kind of tsk tsked when I said that, and told me that she had been encouraging Ryan’s mother to petticoat him for years, and that as far as she was concerned, the world would be a much better place if more boys were properly petticoated while they were growing up. Of course, as the two of them then left the store, there were other customers staring at them, but Ryan, now wearing the yellow dress, simply held his grandmother’s hand and looked down. But his eyes by that time were pretty red again from crying, as were his cheeks with the redness of the shame he was feeling. But I have to say that I’m starting to think that his grandmother was right about how much better things would be if petticoat discipline were used more than it is.

Best wishes

Thank you for your letter Cheryl. We remember you and your previous letter published last month, this one is also quite special, I really appreciate you sharing these experiences with us.

Interesting instances indeed, both show the power of petticoating on young boys and go to illustrate how effective it can be. The lesbian couple working to encourage gender fluidity in their child, most positive and a wonderful example of petticoating for shaping a life of femininity for him.

The other with the grandmother, outstanding to say the least, a perfect example of petticoat discipline, using girls clothes to teach him a lesson in respect for his sister, who no doubt will be highly amused when they return from shopping. For you this must have been quite the experience, to watch, to listen and to be involved in helping her purchase the clothes.

Thank you again for considering us and for sharing these truly delightful examples of petticoating.


On this second letter, I do want to interject my thoughts on the first part about Dana.  Some of you might not Agree with my thoughts here, however, I think they are Important.  I applaud Cheryl for calling Dana what he is, a boy.  For those of us that Truly support Gender Role Reversal, and the Empowerment of Women, it is Imperative that these Feminized boys be called what they are…boys!  That really makes this next Comment and Assumption more Critical.  The mothers are there shopping for clothes for Dana, who was recently enrolled in a very Private school.  This school is Requiring two weeks each month that the boys will be wearing clothes that is traditionally Female; ie, skirts, dresses, tights, blouses, hair ribbons and so forth.   Assuming that this program is executed “fairly”, that might mean that the Girls would be attending  those same two weeks dressed as in clothing that is traditionally boy’s clothing, ie; jeans, jerseys, sneakers, sweatsocks, etc.  What better way to indoctrinate boys and Girls into Gender Role Reversal than this?  PLEASE, in the Comment section, I would Love to know what you readers think of this School and it’s policies!

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  1. Wow. Such a display of power while She was pinning Him.


  2. looks like she pinned him earlier in the match too.


  3. Love the last photo. Her forearms are thicker than his arms and her calfs are thicker than his legs. She’s all muscle, strength and determination, he’s skinny, soft and languid. Girls work hard at the gym while boys play with My Little Pony. It’s the new order.


  4. In the second photo you can see her thighs are twice as strong as his.



  1. It doesn’t look like the guy stood much of a chance in this match. The woman looks so much stronger than him. At least he didn’t back down to her.


  2. When you put together a man and a woman of the same weight the woman will always look so much stronger. Add to that the fact that her muscle is more efficent and more resistant and all the other invisible advantages like flexibility, and the man stands no chance.

  3. I am a youth wrestler from Germany and i contact her for a wrestling trainings fight and she is really interested.

  4. This girl is a very big muscular wrestler and i see many of her videos and she handle guys very big guys too and some of the guys can not stand her not more than 20 seconds.
    Very impressive to see when she control guys with her upper body and they can not go out of this.

Rate the degree of female dominance over the male in each of these picture from on a score of 1-10 then let us compare our numbers email me at rondvorkin@aol.com I’ll start with the second to last picture. That fearless muscular girl wrestler has him. She is about to make him a one armed wrestler. I rate it a 10

It’s a New Day boys….Embrace your New Role!


Is it True? A Reader’s Question!

For today, I decided to elaborate on an E-Mail that I received from a husband that was told to check out the Blog by his wife.  This is just an example of some of the E-Mails I do receive, and what is so nice about it, is that it gives a chance to present the evidence of the Changes that are occurring in our Society.  Gender Role Reversal is indeed happening, and the photos that I post are Clear evidence of how many men and boys are embracing Femininity, while many Women and Girls are pursuing Activities that were ONLY for men, just 50 years ago.

I remember about 40 years ago, the Coach of the Miami Dolphins being asked in an interview what were some of the Changes that he has witnessed in all his years in Coaching.  His response was that he couldn’t get use to the guys wearing earrings, and at times spending so much time searching for them!  Just imagine his thoughts today….men being frustrated by “runs’ in their pantyhose, or men making sure their makeup was just right, or that their purse matched their shoes and their outfit!!!!

Or how about a Cute young man like this having on a Cute outfit to Greet his Breadwinning wife coming home from work!


Or in the “New Age” of Female Control, as Feminist Women push the Gender Boundaries, many boys are finding out their mothers are encouraging a “New Style” for their sons!

Making sue your man in watching his Figure and insisting that he wears Form Hugging clothing is Very Important in getting him “Objectified”, as men had done to Women in the past!

While the men and boys are being Pretty, and are on Diets to Control their Pretty Figures to attract a Strong Woman, Women are Conquering the once “Male Only” Domains of Sports!

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So, how are Women making these Changes?   Well, the Truth be told, many men and boys will adapt to Feminization very easily.  Here is an E-mail from a friend of mine that unfortunately we got “Out of Touch”.  He was once a Very Macho man, that was Out of Control, and then his Wife, now Mistress, decided that things had to Change.  Here are some of those changes.  Keep in mind, in 2007, he went into a tantram and punched holes in the walls of their kitchen….things have now changed quite dramatically!

Hi Patti,
Thank you! Yes Thanksgiving was great. There were people there I didn’t know but no one made issue of me. I cooked along side of Mistress and her sisters. We made all the regular Thanksgiving fare and then I had made Devil cranberries (they are made with
chipotle peppers, jalapenos and onion, and whiskey glazed sweet potatoes and apples.
The guys watched the Miami and Dallas as well, I only caught glances of it as I was busy.I served them beer and shots through out the day. The meal was awesome.
Mistress, Rhonda and Mistress’s sister Sandy played a mean trick on me, but I had such a great time I couldn’t get mad, After dinner they wanted to play cards, just us girls and Louis. Well I don’t drink much anymore a glass of beer or a glass of wine here and there. Well they started doing tequila shots and Mistress told me I could have a shot of two. Well they were double shots, and by the third I was getting pretty ripped.
They took me out under the guise of getting more booze, I found the thought exciting and safe to go into a 7-11 and buy a bottle or two in a place where no one knew me; but they took me to a Indian Casino called Augustine’s. I was a big baby I guess, and didn’t want to go in, but between them and the shots I allowed myself to be dragged out of the truck. At first I was upset, but after a bit and no one making any comments I relaxed and started to have fun. I played penny slots and had a few more shots. We ate dinner at the casino restaurant .
The waitresses were very nice to me, both of them were very beautiful, the one had incredible breasts, and in my relaxed state I told her I was jealous of them. Mistress heard me and made a big deal about my secret desire to have breasts; she even teased me all day yesterday about it; but I had an awesome time. The only downside I was badly hungover yesterday, Mistress had no mercy on me.
Mistress took pictures of everyone, and I hope to send you one. Mistress won’t show faces. She should be processing them this coming week. I thought she was going to have me wear the new pencil skirt; but instead I wore a mid thigh black pleated skirt, blouse and thigh highs, heels and a diamond necklace and earrings. Pink panties and bra. At some point I took off the heels and stockings.
When Mistress first took control as I told you it was more a Mistress / slave thing. She did put me in panties as part of the control factor. Mistress wrote a story about it, but it like most of her stuff is part fact part fiction. I know for us the change over from BDSM to a role reversal life style was an extremely emotional time; filled with both excitement, fear, resistance and of course surrender.
I will most likely send her story, and then clear up the fictional parts. The journey is a long one, never ending really.

Hi Michael!

I am so Glad that you had a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Glad that you were Playing cards with the Girls, rather than watching Football with the guys…although you said the guys were “Nice”, I think it might have been tough for you to watch a Football game with the guys were you were in a skirt and stockings!!

It sounds like Mistress, Rhonda and Sandy had a “Plan” for you! Sounds as if you lost all you inhibitions!!! I have to ask, do you wear a wig, or is your own hair Feminine? Were you wearing makeup, or was it apparent that you were a Guy in a pretty skirt and top? It is a Delight that the waitresses were Nice to you…I am assuming they knew you were a Male?

I Bet you looked so Cute in your short Skirt and blouse! Diamond earring and necklace?….sounds like Mistress Spoils her Pretty Boy!!!LOL I would LOVE to see a picture….I am sure you look Great!!!

Yes, it is a never ending Journey that men like us are on…but it is a Journey worth taking. I came across some Good Stories, I am attaching the link to one of them so you can read it if you are interested. I like that this is supposedly a “Real Life Situation”. I really do believe there are more men like us then most people would think. I just look forward to the day that we can be “Open” with our Femininity…and have other Men Embrace their Femininity, and have the Women take Control…that to me will be a better world!


Your Friend!


Well that is where the rub comes in; I think I am clearly a man in a dress, but Mistress says no. Not that it really matters at this point. My hair is short but Mistress has it cut uni-sex. I can comb it back or with bangs. I don’t wear wigs, but do wear lipstick and blush. Sometimes both toe and fingernail polish but at home. Thanksgiving I was full on fem. Yes the waitress knew I was male, but they were nice, I think they found it interesting they kept coming back.

I found a story I wrote and posted on Experience Project sometime back. I will paste it here as for some reason I cannot attach files from this computer and I took my laptop in to have it set up for karaoke. We will read the stories I really enjoy them.

Changed Man

Posted May 19th, 2010 at 8:14AM
I have been married for 20 years and for 18 years was the dominant person in our household, I am a guy I worked long hours six days a week. If I wasn’t working I hung out with friends drinking and partying, my wife was welcome to come along or not it was up to her. She hated most of my friends as we were really a rude, crude, and rough group. When I was home I was working on my car and drinking beer with my next door neighbor. I honestly never realized that my wife was unhappy, I assumed that she had her own life and was as busy living it as I was, and as Ron White once said “I was wrong”.

After 18 years my wife was looking for ideas on how to make me pay attention to her and stumbled on a site called frock.nu, this site is dedicated to transforming husbands into obedient male maids. They also give women training courses on how to get control and keep it “forced Feminization”. Now just like what you’re thinking, if someone told me a man could be turned into a maid without him wanting to I would of laughed. “I am not laughing”. This is a true story and I am currently living the life I am going to share with you.

Now I have to admit I was an easy victim, my wife had a niece that was a party girl and partied with me a lot. She called me and said she was throwing a New Years Eve party and would we come, and being me I said yes. My wife and I showed up the a packed house and the party was already raging, ice cold beer, tequila shots everywhere you turned, My wife kissed me and said to party my ass off she’d make sure I got home safe. Well after New years had passed, I passed out, I remember the count down by Dick Clark he had just had his stroke, and that was about all I remember. I woke up feeling like I had running a long hard race, not really hung over, and when I tried to get out of bed I found I was shackled hand and foot to the four corners of my California King. I started yelling “what the F— Was going on, and to let me the F—up or else. I was in no mood for this whatever it was. My wife came in and sit down on the edge of the bed and calmly asked me to stop yelling and listen to her, I kept yelling, until she told me to stop or she would leave me there til I stopped, I stopped almost instantly. She told me she was going to talk and I would listen, if I interrupted her, she would leave and try again in a couple of hours, I threatened her with bodily harm, and she left the room, when she came back I was in pain with the need to pee and begged her to let me up, instead she helped me without letting me loose. She asked me if I was ready to listen and I was.

She started out by saying she had put up with being ignored for all these years, and that was going to change, she told me that I was going to learn to serve her and obey her every command without question. I think I told her to go to hell in a hand basket, anyway she left. When she returned she started again, and told me, I had no choice in what was going to happen over the next few days, I told her I would lose my job, and she said no, she had called and said I was very sick and she had told my boss I would most likely be out for a week maybe longer. I think I went a little crazy, yelling about kidnapping, divorce, and she left. When she came back her niece was with her, they grabbed my head and pinched my nose, I never saw the ball gag til it was too late, not that I was able to prevent what was about to happen; they gagged me, so my wife could continue without being interrupted. She told that I was no longer going to be the man, I was going to become her maid, slave, and sex whore.

I fought the shackles until I was completely exhausted, and they just watched me, once I stopped they unshackled one leg, and I thought thank god it’s over, and then they slid the pink lacy panties on and again shackled my leg, then other leg I tried to fight but lost and received a hard slap in the face for resisting, next to my horror came the camera and some photos, what made it worse was as scared and mad as I was my pecker was rock hard, and then a bra more photos. Then my wife told me from here on out if I resisted at all she would call my friends over and send photos to work, she asked me if I understood, when I didn’t answer she said you know I hate your friends so if they disown you I could care less, and she said I make more than double what your job pays you, we will be just fine without your money, I nodded my understanding. I was planning revenge every second. They then released one arm and slipped a teddy over it and then the other arm, once they had it pulled down in place more photos. I wasn’t a hairy guy, but as they pulled the teddy down and it lay on my skin I realized they had removed all my hair. I also realized I was still aroused, and the panties actually felt good, I was disgusted with myself, ashamed, and so aroused it hurt. While I was doing this to myself they had left, I was surprised as I hadn’t noticed.

When they returned they put make up on my face and of course more photos, and then came a manicure, pedicure, polish, and they fixed up my hair, and more photos. This time she showed me the photos from the digital camera, I was shocked I was actually pretty cute. She told me I was going to make a pretty maid. She told me the next part would be hard on both of us, and kind of giggled and said that her niece was excited about it; and really I am too she said. They left me to worry and wonder about what was next.

When they came back her niece came in first and set up a video camera, and then she came in wearing strap-on, I panicked, and started to fight the shackles again knowing full well I could not get free, my wife took out her cell and started dealing she said I going to call mike first, I froze…She calmly set down and told me, I needed to realize my life as a man was over, and I needed to accept that. She said they were going to roll me over, I won’t go into how they managed it, but I never had more than two limbs free at the same time. Once I was in position she came to me with her strap-on an inch from my face. She said after the first year of our marriage, she almost never got laid, well I was going to see what she was missing and I would enjoy it all the time from now on. She told me she was going to remove the gag and I was going to ask her to let me suck her cock, and then I was going to suck like the whore I was to become, and if I yelled, refused or resisted the calls would be made to my friends, I remember thinking it was only rubber no big deal, accept I was still very aroused. As she removed the gag I heard her niece turn on the video camera, my wife didn’t say a word she just wiggled her strap-on, I knew why they waited too turn on the video she wanted it to look like I just asked to suck it without any threats, but I didn’t have a choice, “May I suck your cock’, She surprised me “No not yet, are you going to be my whore?” I said “Yes”, she said “yes what?” My mind raced as I wasn’t sure what she wanted then it hit me “yes Mistress” and she said “open wide, whore” and pushed it all the way in until I gagged and then face fucked me for what seemed like an hour, she pulled out and without a word climbed on the bed and shove my legs apart and roughly shove it in my ass, “GOD! it hurt, but I came almost instantly, and she began to move in and out, her niece came up and just shoved her cock in my mouth. I don’t know how long they used me, later they cleaned me up and left.

By the end of the week I was no longer her husband, I was her maid and slave, and still am. I am writing this after all my household duties are done, and changed into my brown mini skirt, cream top, cream fishnet stocking and brown shoes. I have on my matching undies of white satin and lace, I want to look pretty for Mistress……..

Yes I think the Thanksgiving was preplanned start to finish. Mistress is pushing a bit more for me to go out, and I think she feels your communications help her case. I do find it comforting to know someone else is in a similar situation in real life.

I wore my tights today while I raked leaves under my shorts, and then once in the house I switched to my new black skirt, and tights with a blue spaghetti strap satin top while I did my house work. I think my neighbor may have caught me but not sure. I was loading the washer, and he knocked on the back door. The washer is about 5′ in front of the door and the curtain is quite sheer. I jump and yelled just a moment and ran and changed. He didn’t say anything but kept looking at my feet the whole time we were talking. I had slipped on a pair of Levis and a tee shirt, but kept the tights on. It is scary, but once the neighborhood knows then……..


Mistress is asking a favor of you, everyone who is privy to our role reversal treats me as a woman, and she is asking that you refer to me as Michelle, and not Michael.

New computers are always great we rotate ours about every 2 years oldest one out and buy a new one. We have two desk tops and a laptop for home and the Mistress has a laptop for work.
It is wonderful to hear your girlfriend is embracing your feminine life style. I am sure she has good taste, and you will look all sexy and girly after Christmas. I am sure Mistress will be getting me something sexy and or slutty. Mistress is such a guy when it comes to how I am to dress. I am sure I will get some household stuff to.

But Christmas isn’t a big deal for us as we pretty much buy want we want during the year. We are of course having a Christmas party on December 17th.

I just got back from the gym, and was thinking about your comments about seeing more fem guys in the future. Looking around the gym, almost every guy there had earrings at least, some wearing mid drift shirts, and short shorts, I was in my light blue gym short, and my new black tights, Mistress said not wearing them wasn’t an option. I have to agree I think as more women are exposed to feminized males they will desire to have one, or two, maybe three.

I have been busy working on a menu for our coming party and doing the invitations, also Mistress upgraded my karaoke system and we have had people over singing in the evenings. Jason one of my best friends and his boyfriend were over last night, and they are aware of our lifestyle, it was nice hanging out in my pink dress, polished nails, and bare feet. Being able to relax and just be myself; singing and serving my guests like a good wife should.

Tonight is no visitors, and I am cooking a chicken marinated in mango, garlic and Chiles, with mango papaya salsa, homemade chips and acorn squash baked with agave nectar, butter and cinnamon; and of course a margarita to wash it down with.

I read all those stories you sent, that may very well be the stories for many young boys in the near future, and I do believe girls will happily accept the feminized boys into the group, as most do with gay males now.

Well I need to run I’ve got to start the squash baking.

Hi Michelle!!!

Please let Mistress know that I think it is Wonderful that she wants me to refer to you as Michelle! She is In Control and I think that is a Delight for you and her. So Many Women NEED to understand what Mistress understands, and that is that ALL us Men need to be Feminized and then Dress to Please our Strong and Independent Women. we males are now the “Weaker” and Docile Partners. With the Rise of Women, we men need to understand that we are to be “Looked” at by Women for Their Pleasure!! I think your relationship is Wonderful!!

I also think it is a delight that you are observing ,men and boys being more Feminine. I really believe it is just a matter of time until it becomes Common to see men and boys in skirts and dresses. The Evidence is Growing that more and more men are opting for a Feminine Lifestyle, and more and more Women are Accepting and Encouraging this trend! Yaay!!! Are you enjoying your Tights? I LOVE the Fact that Mistress is leaving you No Choice. I take it that she continues to wear Pants almost exclusively…while she is insisting on you being more and more Feminine??

With you wearing a dress and such in front of guests, is that something New, or have you been doing that for a while? Was Jason one of the guys from your Macho past? think it must be a thrill to be wearing skirts and dresses in front of people more and more. I take it that Rhonda and the other women at Thanksgiving really liked seeing you in your short skirts and stockings!!

You are such a Good Wife. I love that you are doing the Cooking and the housework. remember when we Men Forced women to do these tasks while we were the “Head” of the House? It is Lovely to see that women are reversing that. You are truly a Role model!!

When you go to watch Female Sports like the Sparks…what do you wear and what does Mistress wear? Are you in a “Feminine Personna? I am attaching a ink to another Story, I hope you and Mistress Enjoy it. Also I am attaching some photos for you and mistress…I hope you like them!


Your Friend!


Hi Patti,
Thanks for complying with Mistress’s wishes.

The guy/girl in the other email is very fem, his legs are incredible. Do you know if he has taken hormones? As his face is very fem as well, even though he still has a male cut to it. I gather when you say stay male you mean keep his package.

I managed to get the flu. and have been out of sorts for a couple of days, My fever broke last night, and I feel much more perking this morning. I have lots to do, fell behind in the house work and other stuff.

I had a guy contact me on Tribe, and basically demanded that I tell Mistress he wanted to meet us, and have sex with me while she watched. I tried to explain that while we are in a role reversal relationship I am not gay, and Mistress has never asked or seemed interested in that type of thing as we are married. He said I was submissive and therefore I was gay, and anything else anyone wanted. Well in the end I told him I would pass along his PMs to Mistress which I did. Mistress was not happy in the slightest. Mistress wasn’t very nice in her response to him. First with the fact he assumed she wanted a gay husband, second that she would share me, and third that he dared to demand anything from me or her.

Mistress is very self controlled, and seldom allows herself to get ugly, and almost never gets involved in my internet discussions, as she thinks it is good for me to meet others in similar situations and like me to feel free to discuss our life openly. But I think she enjoyed dropping the hammer on this one.

Our Christmas party is on the 17th. I have pretty much got the menu in order, Roasted turkey, and I picked up a huge pork loin, spicy cranberries, sweet potato and apples in the honey whiskey, pecan glaze along with the usual fare of mashed potato, stuffing, deviled eggs. The guests are already invited just those involved in the lifestyle.

We have gone to two meatless days each week Tuesdays and Thursdays. Today with the cold weather I am making homemade baked potato soup, and salad for dinner, then a hot whiskey tottie, and a foot massage before bed. “Giggles” get Mistress in a romantic mood!

I do love it when we are out and we see girls with their guys and the girl is being aggressive, patting the guys behind or like yesterday the girl pushed the guy against a car and kissed him roughly as her hand roamed all over him. Things like that make me realize men have truly started to lose the masculine role. You can only wonder what happens behind closed doors.

Hi Michelle!

I am sorry to hear that you had the flu….Glad that you are felling better now! no Problem with complying with Mistress’s wishes…I really do Appreciate the Control she has over you especially after you were such a Macho Guy at one point. It is so Delightful to see Women taking their Proper Place and Feminizing us guys!!

As for Kyoko…as far as I know, he does not take hormones, which I think reinforces my contention that men can be Quite Feminine when they work at it. I do not know if he takes Male hormone Blockers or not…but you do assume correctly that he will not have his penis and testes removed…he enjoys being a Male!! which now brings up the subject of the “Pig” that was making Demands on you and Mistress. To me, this the Exactly the type of male that needs to be Forcefully, if necessary Feminized. He does Not understand that being Feminine has nothing to de with being Gay. In Fact, as the Situation at Penn State and Syracuse shows, it is Masculine Men that are the Gay ones, not us Feminine Man. The Drag Queens are what gives these people the impression that Feminine Man are gay, but in all the research I have done over the years, the Vast majority of Feminine Men and Boys are heterosexual…and as far as I am concerned, that is how it should be.

I am glad that your preparation for the December 17th party seems to be going well. You are Quite the Male Wife, and would think that Mistress is Very Proud of you. I hope that the people that are coming will appreciate your Efforts…I am sure they will. I would also think that you will be wearing Very Pretty Outfit and will Look Stunning!

I clicked on the Link that you sent…will have to take time to Explore it. It looks Great! It seems that more and more women are realizing the Great Benefits of them being in Control and having us men being Submissive. I just Hope that these women will Encourage and Support The Feminization of Men and Boys. i especially think it is Crucial that mothers start Feminizing their sons from an Early age and teach them to be Docile and Pretty for the Young Girls. I would really like to see ALL Competitive Sports be Eliminated for Boys, and still have the programs, but be for Girls. Boys as Cheerleaders and Twirlers would be a much better activity for males. the days of male power are over, and it is only Proper that we encourage boys to no longer develop physical Strength…afterall, that is what has led to such abuse of women in the past. On the other hand, I do believe that women and girls should be encouraged to be physically Strong in order to Protect our Culture and the “Feminine Males”….. Truly believe that women can handle Physical Strength better than men can. Would be interested in what you and Mistress think about that statement!

Your friend!

That site I sent is a pro feminist site, they believe women should rule the world and men should take their rightful subservient place at the feet of women. They don’t push feminization, but I know from correspondence with them that feminization is a tool they believe helps to control a willful male. I believe once a male is dominated the nature next step is to feminize him. But women just like men find certain things attractive, not all women find sissies sexy.

Yes I have found it to be true most think that men in dresses are gay. I lost a good friend who you’d think would understand as he is a slave to his wife/Mistress. He came on to me, and when I told him I wasn’t gay he got ugly, and I told him that he was coming on to me, not the other way around. He told me he wasn’t gay, and I told him pitching or catching your still in the game. That was the last time we spoke. Men are terrible creatures and visually stimulated. so when they see a short skirt, and creamy white thighs, or a submissive nature. Well you know the story.

I think as we move forward it may prove to be problematic as non-feminized males well try and take advantage of the feminized males. I know for me I am submissive to my wife/Husband but not to anyone else; unless Mistress tells me to be so towards another woman. Occasionally she does loan me to a friend who is part of our circle. Not for sex, but to help with household chores or serving a party. To answer your next question no never as a female.

Muscles and women, I agree that women need to be somewhat physically dominant, but I think there is a fine line; at least for now. I think woman get much of their power and control from their femininity. Men are drawn to the trim sexy bodies, and surrender to a woman. If the woman challenges them in a manly fashion the men may wrap themselves in their macho defenses. Later as men become more feminine I think that may change. I think for me being taken by my sexy wife was an important part of my humiliation, and her ability to control me in the early stages of our new relationship. Now I am both well trained and content with my life, and I no longer a struggle with the need to be macho.

It is hard for me to explain, but men are stronger physically, but are complete weaklings mentally and emotionally when it comes to relationships; not to mention that our sexual desires and needs control much of our thinking, and make us vulnerable to women’s control. I will ask Mistress as to her opinion on this.

As for Kyoko , I was wondering because men have pre-dominant traits, such as leg and thigh shape, and not to mention most men have naturally flat butts. She/He has incredible legs, thighs and a very nice rump. They are very naturally feminine. I know as I have worked out many hours to try and get that look. Also men tend to have shoulders wider then their hips while women tend to be the same size, or their shoulders are smaller then the hip width. Either way he is a prime example of a feminized male.

I know Mistress is proud of my change and of the way I maintain our home. She takes delight in letting people know I am home cleaning and cooking. Making the point to let people know when they comment on the house that it is all my hard work. Awhile back one of our clueless couples were over and commented on how clean and organized the house was, and he said that I would make someone a good wife when Mistress told them that I took care of the house. I could only wonder what he’d think if he knew.

Well it is 7:30am here and time to wake my sleeping beauty. Someone has to bring home the bacon.

Hi Michelle!

Sorry it has been a while since I responded…it has been a Very Busy Week! Had to be away at a Meeting for three days and then tried to catch up the last two days! Finally catching a break tonight!

I guess you have been busy preparing for the party tomorrow. I hope all is going well with the Cooking and Cleaning and preparation. Hope mistress has a Very Nice Outfit for you to wear tomorrow…it is important that you be the Prettiest Boy there!! LOL

I think it must be Exciting when Mistress has you Clean or Serve for her female Friends. it must be titillating to be serving a Women while you are feminine or at least in that Submissive posture, after being a masculine Man. As for the Problem with the macho Men versus us Sissies…Yes, i think that is something that will need to be addressed by Women. I really think that women need to Control the Situation and use Feminization on a Wide Scale to “tame” us Males. It seems that many males only know “Force”…and if that is what it will take, then women will need to go that avenue…it would be much better if we men just Accepted our Feminization on our own, but what will be will be!

It will be wonderful to hear how your Party goes. I hope everything is falling in place for you as we get closer and closer to Christmas!

Take care!


Hi Patti
No problem with the slow response I myself have been extremely busy. Holidays can be a very stressful time. I have Mistress’s 3 gifts bought, and the house is in full Christmas mode.

The party was incredible as always, Mistress and I are great hosts, or so we are told. we are both social animals, and I am finding myself quickly becoming more comfortable and able to better enjoy myself.. The food was eaten, and Mistress and I received a number of rave reviews. Main food of course was the 12lb pork loin marinaded for 36 hours in a mango, guava, chipotle sauce, and the glazed with a sweeter version of the marinade as I grilled it over an open fire.

Jason and his boyfriend Mike was there and my new karaoke system was waiting to be given it’s first big test. I love to sing, and so do they and we started belting out songs an before long the house was full of wannabe singers. I sing both girl and boy songs and Jason and I sing a couple of duets. As people left the party move inside completely, and we kept singing and people danced and drank, it was after midnight before the last guest said good night.

It was too cold to be dressed in a mini, so I wore a calf length black skirt, pink long sleeve blouse, pink tights and black heels. It was simple but very fem, and I know Mistress found it hot as we made crazy love after everyone was gone.

Last night we had dinner out at a steakhouse called Lonestar, always great food and service. But we talked about you…yes you. As we sit Mistress commented on how you seem to be on the right track, and the changes in younger women seem to be supporting the coming revolution. So many of the female customers and waitresses were very tall and very broad and stocky built, but still sexy and not fat just man size. I joked that it gives us men hope to be just as sexy and pretty as they are, and Mistress said “you better look in the mirror sweets, you have a better body then any of them.” It made me feel incredible, and made me blush about ten shades. She said when next we go there again, I should dress up and show off. That’s scary as hell.

As I told you before I take the trash out in the mornings in my nightie, and now I am wearing my pink fuzzy slippers out during the day to get the mail and stuff. I have been thinking about, and talking with Mistress. I told her that I am not comfortable going out as a girl, you know wig, and lots of make up; but maybe we could go somewhere and I could try not wearing heavy makeup, and just maybe some mascara, fix my hair, and wearing jewelry, and nice feminine clothes. What is your opinion on that? It’s a big step for me, and I would like to maybe go up north to the bay area for the first outing.

Today and tomorrow are prep days we are going to Mistress’s sister’s again, and I am in charge of the meat. I have a large bone in ham that I smoked for 12 hours yesterday and today I will glaze it so it will only need warming Christmas, The turkey and stuffing will be oven ready, and the prime rib will marinade until time to hit the grill Christmas day. I cried when Sandy called and asked me if I would do all the meat as I was a better cook then all the other girls.

It is so very funny to me…The excitement, and warm comfort I get from cooking and cleaning, and being a part of this. I realize it is very important to me to win Mistress’s approval as well as others.

Anyway laundry is calling me..


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What this means for men!


(From Lady Alexa FLR Blog)
If you’re a man reading this with excitement, be careful what you wish for. In a real FLR, you will be the one who primarily cooks, cleans, irons, washes and does the housework. Maybe staying home with the kids, if they’re still young. He may even still work on top of all this. Welcome to the previous world for women. It’s your lifestyle now.

Meanwhile, the woman goes to work. Her job is the most important. She has financial control. She determines the financial priorities for the household and makes sure the bills are paid.

No problem here. Still looks like a guy just as women in pants still look like women. A skirt is a great alternative to pants for guys...

Once the male takes on the traditional ‘housewife’ role in a successful female led relationship, the previous male/female norms have to change. Now it’s the man who has to look pretty, attractive and sexy for his woman. The traditional housewife role remains, but it is now the man who performs it.
When the female leader returns home after a day in the office, she should expect a clean and tidy home, a meal and a pretty husband waiting expectantly for her.
‘Forced’ feminization is not necessarily part of an FLR. In the more basic versions a man will just ensure he looks attractive, but as a male. At the other end of the scale, where Alice and I are, I believe that feminization and/or male exposure are fundamental.
I personally prefer men to look and act like females. I want my husband to be a girl with a male clitty. It’s not just the look, but the female personality and thinking that goes with it. Encouraged feminization softens the male and changes his character. It removes all the nasty effects of masculinity and replaces it with a gentle feminine character.

So in our FLR, my clothing choice for my husband is female and girly. Take at look at my LadyAlexaFLR Tumblr account to see what I’d really like my man to look like.
Men can’t be macho while wearing a pretty pleated mini skirt or naked with a pink ribbon tied around their shaved clitty.

Appropriate clothing for husbands
Feminization and exposure helps in them to accept and understand their place in the relationship.

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Young boys are now competing in Beauty Pageants!

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Here are some insights that I received from a Woman that went by “Whitte” from one of the Sites I had on Gender Role Reversal:

2011-09-29 01:02:03
Pattiann, you are so correct, the men need to realize their new place in the grand scheme of things and that is assuming the traditional feminine role, and because of that fact they must learn to be more feminine in every thing they do. And it falls on us as women and mothers to teach our boys at a very early age to be feminine and to be submissive to females at all times. We need to stress on both the boys and the girls that females are superior and dominant and males are inferior. If this was done, the world would be a better place and both males and females would be much happier.

2011-09-29 01:08:03
Yes, it is a natural force, i truly believe that the proper role of the female is to be dominant and the male submissive. And because of that fact, we need to start our children out early by teaching them their roles in life, we need to have a complete role reversal and teach our boys to be subservient to all females, and teach all little girls that boys are inferior and exist only to serve them. You must admit, the world would be a better place and I’m convinced that both males and females would be happier people.

2011-09-29 01:18:00
Good for you, Morrie. More women should do that, you”d be surprised how many men would be receptive to it. About the fact you might have a boy, if you do I’d highly recommend bringing him totally as a girl. Teach him to be feminine in every way. I’m sure he and you would be much happier for it. If more of us brought our boys up as girls, the world would be a better place. I’ve known boys who were feminized like that and they are every happy and content.

2011-09-29 01:27:04
Now can you explain to me why you would have to wait until Halloween to dress as you please? What exactly is wrong with a boy wearing a dress or a skirt or for that matter any and all so-called feminine attire? There is nothing at all wrong with a boy being feminine and assuming the female role, most boys would be happier for doing it. A few short years from now women will be in charge of virtually all management roles, so men and boys need to get used to assuming a subservient role and learn to behave in a feminine manner. From now on mothers need to teach their boys to be feminine and to obey their female counterparts, and girls at a young age need to be taught that boys are inferior to them and they are there to serve them in any way they deem fit. That will eventually mean that boys and men will assume female dress and act like today’s females. That being said, the quicker we start feminizing our boys, the better.

2011-09-29 01:35:29
Do you agree that it would be a good idea if all mothers brought up their boys in exactly the same way as if he were a girl, teach him to be feminine, to dress and act like a girl? I believe these boys would be happier later in life and without question they would make better citizens. Females are becoming the dominant sex, so that means that the males must assume the female role, so they might as well be taught to be girls from the time they are small. A great many boys and young men even now would be happier in a subservient or feminine role, but they’ve been taught to be men, although it goes again their mental and emotional state of mind. Please let me know your opinion of this. Thank you.

2011-09-29 11:24:55
We, as parents, have a responsibility to femininize our sons, after all it’s not their fault that they had the bad luck to be born male. They should be raised as girls from day one, they would be happier and more content for it, and hey, the world would be a better place. Again, as a mother of two boys who are now completely feminized, I can recommend doing this to every parent of a male child, please don’t let them grow up to be like the men that are around us today, give them a better future. When they are grown women, they’ll thank you for it.

2011-10-01 16:00:19
Hi, Patti, good to hear from you. My “boys” are ages 5 and 7. Both are very content and happy little girls, delightful children, at least from a mothers point of view. The answer to your question is – no, I’m was so lucky because they have never shown any masculinity whatsoever in their personalities. That was always my biggest fear. But I immersed them totally into femininity from the day they were born and I think that it the key. They claim our persona is determined 50% by nature and 50% by nurture, and in my case I appear to have been blessed by the fact that nurture has been dominant over nature. Of course they were both given female names – Lori Louise is 7 and Catherine Elizabeth is 5. Lori is in school now and that was a potential problem that had to be solved, but understanding teachers have made allowances for the private use of washroom facilities for her, to which I am so grateful and relieved. Catherine will not be going to school under next autumn, and I’ve had the same discussion with the teachers for her. Personally, I’d highly recommend this to any and all mothers. Again, I’ve been so lucky to have understanding people around me to assist and answer my many questions, but I’m just so happy that and pleased with the everything that has happened and look forward to seeing my beautiful daughters grow up (but hopefully they’ll stay little for a while longer, if you know what I mean). Thank you for your interest, Patti, and please keep in contact.

2011-10-02 16:48:34
Thank you, Pattiann, for your support, it really does mean a lot to me. No, fortunately there is no male figure in our lives, the girls’ father left 3 months before Cathy was born, a typical man, but we won’t get into that here. And as far as girls go, I truly believe they should be brought up in a manner that would be more typical of raising a boy, however, being girls, I believe they can and should be able to enjoy the pleasures of being feminine. A girl, and a women, can handle this much better than a male, with a male it’s one thing or the other, they don’t seem to have the emotionally capacity that girls do. The girls can be feminine and still enjoy sports and other things deemed by society’s narrow view as masculine. But we must stress to them that they are to be dominant at all times with their interactions with males, that really and truly males are inferior to females in so, so many ways. This attitude seem to be coming a trend, both in America and Europe, and if we keep it up and advise our friends and daughters that this is indeed the way of the future, then it’s a foregone conclusion that the world will be a much better place in years to come. Pattiann, please keep in touch, no doubt there will rough spots for us in the future but with people like yourself around to give encouragement, I’m sure we’ll get through. And I’m going to check out Eunice’s posting right now, it’ll be so interesting to hear how she managed to successfully feminize her husband. I just love the whole concept of that.

2011-10-02 16:48:34
Thank you, Pattiann, for your support, it really does mean a lot to me. No, fortunately there is no male figure in our lives, the girls’ father left 3 months before Cathy was born, a typical man, but we won’t get into that here. And as far as girls go, I truly believe they should be brought up in a manner that would be more typical of raising a boy, however, being girls, I believe they can and should be able to enjoy the pleasures of being feminine. A girl, and a women, can handle this much better than a male, with a male it’s one thing or the other, they don’t seem to have the emotionally capacity that girls do. The girls can be feminine and still enjoy sports and other things deemed by society’s narrow view as masculine. But we must stress to them that they are to be dominant at all times with their interactions with males, that really and truly males are inferior to females in so, so many ways. This attitude seem to be coming a trend, both in America and Europe, and if we keep it up and advise our friends and daughters that this is indeed the way of the future, then it’s a foregone conclusion that the world will be a much better place in years to come. Pattiann, please keep in touch, no doubt there will rough spots for us in the future but with people like yourself around to give encouragement, I’m sure we’ll get through. And I’m going to check out Eunice’s posting right now, it’ll be so interesting to hear how she managed to successfully feminize her husband. I just love the whole concept of that.

Here is the story from Eunice that Whitte referred to:

2004-12-30 16:04:10
Message I am new to these polls and was really thrilled to see this one. Back in the 70s, my mom feminized my 3 brothers and my Dad. I was the only girl in the family and my mom took it upon me to help her. I was about 12 and my older brother was about 14 and my 2 little brothers were 5 and 6. Mom had for a year or so always punished my brothers by making them dress up in dresses for punishment, for several years before starting them on the feminine stuff full time. Especially my older brother, he had to wear dresses many times for a day or two sometimes a little longer whenever he got into trouble. He hated it but mom would not let him back down. Later she confided with me that for about a year and a half before she wanted them to go girl, she started letting their hair grow out and encouraged my Dad to let his hair grow longer. She always said that if he did not straighten up she would make him a girl permanently. Finally one summer, she told him that he was so bad that he was going to have to dress as a girl for most of the summer or she was going to send him to live with his grandparents, which he did not like. One day she took him over to a friends house and he came back with his long below shoulder length hair cut in a layered cut with puffy girl bangs, curled and styled in a very girlish way. Plus he was wearing a green dress, pantyhose, bra and panties. He looked very much like a girl and we did not recognize him when we saw him. She took pictures of him and he left to his room in dismay. My 2 little brothers laughed at him but they did not laugh long when mom pulled out some new dresses for them and told them they were going to get their hair done the next day. The next day, her friend gave them both little girls curly perms, they were just one mass of curly hair, They had shoulder length curls and were both dressed in Blue lacy dresses and panties. My dad thought it was great and I later learned that he told my mom he wanted to let her feminize him and he became a very womanishly looking man. This was in the seventies and she eventually had his hair cut and permed in a long curly style and it just kept getting Blonder and blonder. She made him wear dresses and skirts at home most of the time and often did his makeup, nails and hair and they would go out for an evening. My mom always had long lovely hair and my own was a good 18-20″ long, one day she said we should go out and get a new style, so we went out and she convinced me (although reluctantly) to have mine cut very short. It was about 3-4″ long when they were done and I thought it look terrible. She loved it and told me to go sit down because she was next. She had the girl cut off all of her hair. It was about a 1″ or 1 1/2″ on top and tapered down to nothing on sides and back, it was a shock. It was cut like a mans hair and mom wanted it to look that way, but mom was a very shapely women and she even looked very beautiful with hardly any hair. Dad hated our haircuts but mom told him that it did not matter what he thought, she was the boss and he was her women and he better learn to like it. Mom was a lawyer and after the haircut always wore very manish style business suits but with her very nice shape, she still always looked very nice. This did seem to bother her some and no matter how much she tried to dress down, her figure always made her look very womanishly. She wanted me to wear slacks and shirts all of the time and I did mostly, then she let me go back to longer hair and pick out my own styles. Dad always dressed as a women after that and he was constantly groomed, and styled however she wished. He mostly wore a body shaper or a padded bra and brief, but he always dressed as a women until he died a few years ago from cancer, very unexpectedly. Mom has since met a man abut 10 years younger then her and is now getting him to dress as a women for her most of the time. I am now a married mother of one and my husband dresses in both men’s and women’s clothing, but his crowning glory is his long natural wavy hair, which he normally wore just long and pulled back wherever he went. Just recently I convinced him to let me cut and layer the top with nice full bangs and I now get him to wear it in a high ponytail and with the full bangs it really looks great and very womanishly. Although he does not always look the part of a women because he is 6’3″ and broad shoulders. He dresses in many unisex styles and with the feminine looking hair, he still gets called mam many times when we are out. He is fair skinned and his facial hair is on the weak side, so i use a lite concealer on his beard and lightly apply makeup to him sometimes. We have been married for almost 7 years and have a little boy, who I dress in both boys and girls stuff, but we are both leaning to dressing him as a girl full time. With his long hair and big blue eyes, he looks like a girl no matter how he is dressed. My husband has finally agreed to let me streak his long brown hair with golden highlights and we are going to get his ears pierced. He would like to dress as a women full time but because of his size he does not always look the part, I told him to dress the way he likes and not to worry about it. My oldest brother has been marred for 6 years to a very dominating woman who keeps him under her control and he continues to live as a women all of the time. My 2 younger brothers, both still dress as women full time. One is married to a lovely big beautiful girl who loves his feminine styles. The other would like to become a woman full time and complete the whole thing with surgery, he already has been on hormones and has breast surgery. He has a girlfriend now but he has often went out with guys and has told me that he would like to someday be married to a guy after he is a woman completely. My family is not your ordinary group of people, but overall we are very close and mostly happy with our lives. My bothers are all proof that one can be directed into this lifestyle and that it is not something that just happens but one can be guided into. I love my husband and love it when he is all made out as a women and goes to bed in a pink nightgown with his hair all tied back or in curlers. We think more people should consider femininization.

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From one of the Female Followers of Lady Alexa’s Blog:

Katrina says

The FLR Selina and I live is close to your 10 steps with a few differences. When we started our FLR one of my main goals was to feminize my husband as quick as I could and strip away his masculinity at the same time. In regards to step 4, that meant replacing the macho activities/hobbies which included going out with the guys, watching wrestling, MMA, and hockey, holing up in the man cave surfing the internet ( often times porn as I discovered) and not lifting a finger to help out around the house. I replaced these bad habits with makeup lessons, voice training, shopping, practicing female mannerisms, doing yoga and working out with me at all female workout classes, shopping, going to the salon, going to movies, plays, craft shows, and other woman oriented activities. There was pushback but I held my ground as feminization and removing masculinity were crucial to successfully implementing a FLR lifestyle. As I’ve stated in other responses on previous topics, Selina led me to your blog, said she wanted to live a FLR, but didn’t realize how I would embrace it and got more than she bargained for. Also, Step 2, taking over the household chores helped fill the time void of losing her “male privelage” and the macho activities. As 2019 entered the holiday season, two of Selina’s old friends reached out to us and expressed a desire to rekindle the friendship. We had them over and they stated they accepted the life Selina is now living and actually admired her be brave enough to live as a woman. This goes into Step 7, how public we choose the FLR to be. Selina has been living fulltime as a woman and other than a select few people who know we live a FLR. most people think she is a man choosing to live as a woman. As we talked and I felt comfortable her friends were sincere, I shared our true relationship with them. They were respectful and supportive of it and asked if Selina could go out with them sometime to watch a game. I agreed and shortly after the three of them attended a hockey game. I typically don’t choose Selina’s attire as she knows what I like her to wear and has developed a keen sense of style. Selina wanted to wear jeans, boots, and a sweater but I insisted she wear a dress and heels as many women attend games dressed up. We went to the salon and had a girly day getting our hair done, nails, and facials. I chose a red bodycon dress that went to just above her knees, black 3″ heels, a black sweater, and nice accessories. Underneath she wore a matching black satin bra and panty set. She looked hot! She was so nervous about going out without me but her friends assured me they would take good care of her. The night turned out to be a success and she has twice since gone out with them. Her friends have been total gentlemen and respectful of Selina. I am slowly allowing her to incorporate some of her old hobbies and activities into her life while closely monitoring whether any masculinity is trying to sneak back in. In regards to Step 8, I have pretty much set the boundaries, but, have never and will not put Selina in a situation that threatens her safety or well being. Selina has totally bought into our FLR lifestyle and has become a confident, self assured feminized male at work and outside the home while knowing I am in charge at home even though she has liberties and earned privileges over time. Ours is a wonderful marriage!

Katrina says
9th February 2020 at 3:21 pm
Thank you Joy! If someone had told me a few years ago my husband and I would be living a FLR lifestyle and he as a completely feminized male living 24/7 as a woman I would have calked them crazy. Thanks to reading this blog and learning what a real life FLR could be, our lives and marriage have completely changed for the better. I love my “wife” very much and she has evolved into an amazing partner, lover (always on my terms), and human being! I truly believe that in the next 20 years that women will be the leaders…politically, in business, and at home. Feminization of my husband works for us and is such an amazing way to live our lives!



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