Women Need to Continue Encouraging Male Feminization!

It is now a “Woman’s World”!   Men and Boys need to know their Rightful place in the New Age!!  Many of these Strong Women like the thought of having a Feminine man in their lives!

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Many woman are encouraging their husbands, sons and boyfriends to get in touch with their femininity.  There are numerous threads on forums where this is happening.  For Women to take control of society, the feminization of men and boys could be a crucial element, and women need to seize the opportunity to reverse the Gender Roles.  Here are a few examples of what some women are doing:

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Posted July 5, 2014
For as much as I hate shopping, it really should be loathe, I love to shop for my wife. I enjoy buying him girly, frilly things and super feminine shoes. In an odd way, I almost feel like I can live vicariously through him – which is odd because I am the farthest thing from feminine. At first I thought the body hair shaving would be off putting to me, but I love feeling how soft his skin is and now I prefer that he shaves. So glad your wife is accepting and embracing who you are!

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When I started shaving my chest and southern region, my wife said no shaving of legs, arms or pits.
Well, she changed it to no arms or pits. I used my beard trimmer to shorten the hair then waited a a couple days. Once the wife got used to that, I used my brand new lady foil shaver which worked extremely well, today. Waiting to see if she even notices when she gets home from work today.
Also, she showered me with many gifts upon my return from Asia yesterday. More undies and a long sun-dress sort of thing and leggings and cami and a couple pretty tops.
I can’t even convey how this is making me feel……

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My step mom thought of me very well,bought me a nice handbag and it’s not a cheap one.Ordered a nice Dooney & Bourke handbag from QVC that I would fall in love with.She has one and is a very good one.I loved it on the spot and told her thank you.This was my gift from her saying thank you for supporting her,she beat 1st stage breast cancer last month getting the news she is 100% cancer free.Saw I had the cheap handbags I always replaced once a year.This one is going to hold up for a long time and no more cheap handbags for me.

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I went over to my new job where I start at on Monday and met some of my new co workers. I was nervous at first saying I am a fulltime crossdresser. Took it well and told me that I looked gorgeous, they work in in the office area. Said they want to know me more and that is going to happen.  Luckily they understand I am a normal man that loves dress as a woman 24/7.Told them I have been crossdressing since I was 4 or 5 years old and decided to go fulltime in March.  I am so relieved this happened and it looks good

 

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Two of them, Maria and Alexi say I have great legs too. Good thing is this shop I am going to work at is GLBT and crossdresser friendly.

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Well, as promised, here’s the story of this weekend.
Back-story: Over the last few years, my sex drive has decreased to the point having no real desire to have sex. And without the help of a $50 pill, ‘it’ doesn’t work too well anyway. My wife and I have had sex far less frequent the last few months due to my current cervical vertebrae problem which causes me constant pain and the severity is directly related to my physical exertion level as well as stress. It also increases throughout the day in general. Whenever my wife has brought up the lack of action, I guess I was afraid to tell her the truth and the conversation always degenerated into an argument.
Friday, my wife was snooping around in my FB private messages and found a message from a female friend and while it was innocent enough, due to her sexual frustration, it set her off. We ended up having a terrible Friday night that included her stating that she’s been considering being celibate so that she no longer ‘gets her hopes up’. This has been brought up before and it really hurts me that she feels this way, and it kills me that I can’t make my wife happy. Yes, we’ve tried other forms of ‘sex’ as well as toys, but toys really don’t ‘do it’ for her and even if I get her to climax, she’s not satisfied unless we’ve actually had sex.
Saturday morning, after my shower and shaving nearly my whole body (which I do every day) I began to dress. Pretty panties, black lacy bra and my favorite breast enhancers. I grabbed a size 3X T-shirt which tends to hide my ‘breasts’ pretty well (my ‘breasts’ are pretty prominent when wearing enhancers due to my own natural breast tissue enlarging due to a medical reason that I can explain later if any is interested) and when I looked down, I realized my ‘breasts’ barely showed, as is fairly typical. At that moment I said “NO!” I changed to a smaller shirt, only one size down but small enough that there is absolutely no way that my ‘breasts’ can be missed.
I went to my gender therapy appointment at 08:00 and today I spent the hour downloading the above sexual problem backstory and the most recent as well as past related arguments. We talked and my therapist tried to explain and convince me that it’s not my fault. However, I feel that whether it’s my ‘decision’ or not, it’s still my fault that I can’t make my wife as happy as she deserves. I left the appointment in a pretty decent ‘place’.
As per our weekly tradition, my wife and I went to breakfast and I gave her a brief synopsis of my therapy this day. We ate and talked and then finally left for our local farmers market where we met our daughter and bought a few things. We then headed to a shopping center where we hit a few stores and took our time and were ’just being together’. The rest of the day was basically a ‘girls day shopping’. We hit some stores looking to get me a couple pair of (women’s) shoes (I only really have sandals and flip-flops and such). I grabbed a pair of pink/purple sneakers that would match my workout outfit. I stared at them then said ‘scre.w it’, I took off one of my shoes and tried on this size 11 and found that I would need at least an 11 ½ or maybe 12. We found that this store limited women’s shoes to size 11 and nothing above L. We continued our shopping, looking for new girly clothing for each of us and didn’t find too much that ‘tickled’ us, plus we’re kind of waiting for next weekend as we have a lot of Haute Cash to spend at Torrid! Our favorite place to shop! We had lunch then came home.
I got ‘dressed’ and she asked me to wear HER favorite breast forms (I have several but she has her favorite J ). We piddled around the house and then finally laid in bed talking. We ended up ‘being together’ and had the most wonderful time we’ve probably ever had. Afterward, we talked, really talked, like we haven’t really done in a very long time. Some of the things we talked about were of issues relating to my lack of sex drive and ED having nothing to do with her. It’s simply my body no longer working properly. We talked about my feminine feelings and I elaborated in more detail than before without being ‘on guard’ or overly apprehensive/nervous about our talk. We talked about various personal things and afterward we realized that we’re feeling so much closer. My wife has also been noticing that my arm pit hair has been steadily getting shorter and shorter (teehee). After she made a cute little comment about it I told her that I can’t promise that I won’t be shaving them soon. We laughed……..
Sunday morning we were supposed to do chores around the house but I told my wife I just didn’t feel like it and she said she’d like to go to Macys and see if the new line of Flip-Flops were out. I showered shaved and dressed as above, with one difference, I shaved my arm pits! J We left and unfortunately the new line of flip flops isn’t out.
We began meandering through the mall and she kind of quickly pulled over to Sephora (women’s cosmetics) where she buys most of her cosmetics. I followed her in like I generally do and looked around. Any time we’re in Sephora I always look at the pretty shades and types of cosmetics and just kinda dream. I had brought up the possibility of my wearing cosmetics some months ago and she wasn’t ready for that.
Well, we walked up to the Kat Von D makeup, the powered foundation she always buys and she looked around and grabbed some shades. She then grabbed my hand and started rubbing different shades onto my hand/wrist. I started glowing inside J. Ultimately she selected a powdered foundation, a couple shades of eye shadow, lipstick eyeliner etc. I simply cannot even begin to describe the feeling that I’m having at that moment! We made our purchase and hit a few more shops looking for shoes and to buy some of my own cosmetic brushes. HOLY CRAP! Based on the prices, you’d think quality cosmetics brushes were made from gold!! Also, after hitting few more places it seems clear that most stores don’t stock women’s shoes above size 11 L Before heading home we stopped at a beauty supply place to get some ‘nail jewelry’ for when we do our toes tonight.
Got home, I got dressed in a pretty pink top and a pair of denim shorts and my MK flip-flops. We laid in bed relaxing and then finally I went and retrieved our purchases and a small bin to store my new cosmetics. She grabbed the makeup and began to apply the powdered foundation, mascara, eye shadow and eyeliner. I’m giddy as a school girl **squeeeeeee**
She finished my ‘makeover’ and got a tear in her eye and said “you’re so beautiful”, it was a wonderful moment. We laid there chatting when she looked at me with a very serious look on her face and said “I think we need to start researching wigs”. At this point I’m almost in tears. She further explained that she wants to finish my ‘dressing repertoire’ so that we can get dressed up all beautiful and have a nice dinner and have a really beautiful date night. I feel like the happiest and luckiest girl in the world…….
**hugs**
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Shopping and choosing clothing, lingerie. Sharing outfits with my GF. I love looking down at my toenails. The feel, smell, taste of lipstick. I was in Victorias this afternoon and sprayed on a nice mist, smelling and feeling pretty. Panties, silk or cotton, I wear them most all the time now. The “feel” of panties and pantie hose. The warmth of panty hose while on a deer stand and my hunting buddies have no clue (feel and naughtiness both I guess) Wearing pretty stockings, fishnets, patterns, the feel of them on my legs. A mid thigh length skirt, the openness, the breeze, the freedom. Trying on brassieres openly in the aisle at kohls. Picking myself out a pretty purse with my GF. Looking at myself in the mirror with wig and makeup. Seeing pics the GF took of me, one especially in exercise tights, a camo hoodie, wig, taken from behind while feeding my mule. Being told I am pretty. Being comfortable and accepting what I am. Wearing nice scents and not worrying about a feminine smell because they really do smell better. Looking at, appreciating and wearing the clothing I always wanted to but didn’t always realize, hey, it’s OK! Looking in my closets and drawers mixed with pretty things. The smiles that just come naturally to me while dressed. I have support, I am happier, I feel good, I feel pretty. Hard day? Dress as Destiny and it’s gone. Destiny Lynn

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About eighteen months ago my wife helped me shave my legs and she polished my toes and I’ve kept them shaved ever since because it feels heavenly having her stroke my bare legs while we’re reading or watching television. About a month ago she invited me to go with her for a pedicure the next time she went. I’m extremely self-conscious about people seeing my bare legs so I started letting the hair grow back. The evening before our pedicures as I was removing my red nail polish she talked me into shaving my legs again- not that it took much convincing. I can’t begin to describe my anxiety as the only guy in a nail salon wearing short pants. While my feet soaked in hot water the pedicurist rubbed oils and lotions into my freshly shaved legs before wrapping them with hot moist towels and giving me a foot massage. It was a wonderful experience, I enjoyed spending time with my wife and no one mentioned my shaved legs. I didn’t ask for polish, the pedicurist didn’t offer and I would have declined. I’m hoping next time I’m more relaxed and I can enjoy the pedicure experience even more.
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Hm… seems like I’ve been starting threads all over the place here lately… >_>
Anyway, this morning on the way to school, I ended up asking my mom if she would be mom if she would be okay with seeing pictures of me dressed up, and she said yes! I ended up showing her, and she was super supportive, she even ended up being kind of jealous of my wig~ (I don’t think she was really jealous, but still, the comment about my choice of hair was nice ^-^)
I’m kind of disappointed with all of the acceptance going around though, it kind of leaves me thinking, why did I waste so much time? If I had known that my mom/sister were going to be so accepting, then I would have done this ages ago!
I really want the next target on my coming-out hit-list (as I have fondly dubbed it) to be my Aunt, since she owns a salon and hence, is amazing when it comes to make-up. Well, her and my dad, but my dad I’m pretty sure is going to be a bit more tough to confront. :

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Hi everyone,
I’m here not for myself but for my husband. My husband is pretty openly bi, it is not something he hides but it is also not something he announces. I am much more open about my bi-sexuality but I understand that we all approach it differently. Over the past few months, he has made subtle hints here and there about other things. I’m not the world’s most girly girl… by a long shot. It is rare that I do anything beyond throwing on eye shadow, mascara, jeans and a t-shirt. In the past, he has made comments about how he can rock a pair of heels better than I can. I always took it as friendly banter since I almost never wear heels. He has slowly “tested the waters” by introducing little things, like his g-strings and making jokes about dressing as a woman.
Within the last two to three weeks we’ve had a lot of heart to heart talks about a lot of different topics. One of the big ones has been his sexuality, which he is still working through (he hasn’t been out for more than 2 years). That day I had come home from work to find that he had shaved a majority of his body hair off, which is not abnormal except for this time he had also shaved his leg hair. That was the first time it had ever happened. He mentioned that he liked the way it made his legs feel. The topic of cross-dressing came up very, very carefully from him. I’ve always told him that I will accept him for whoever he is and however he chooses to express that. He and I are different sizes, so I don’t have anything that fits him. He mentioned that he wanted a kilt so he could wear a “man-skirt” and it “wouldn’t be weird for a man to wear”. St. Patrick’s Day is coming up soon and I found a kilt for him in a local store. I took it home, gave it to him after work and he immediately put it on. He spent the rest of the day wearing that and it was never awkward or weird for either of us. That single act seemed to open up the doors and we talked a lot more about it. I’ve always identified myself as a woman but always felt like a man stuck in a woman’s body. For him, life has been a very similar experience. He has always identified more with the feminine side of things.
He and I wear different size clothes, so there isn’t much that I own that he can fit in or that would satisfy his need to express his feminine side. I think I own one skirt and a handful of gowns, none of which he will fit in. I wanted to make him feel comfortable, especially considering that I am the only person he has ever told about the cross dressing, so I went out that night and picked out a couple of skirts and tops for him. He has become so much different (in a good way). He seems like he can breathe finally, like he is comfortable in his own skin. He has worn the skirts and tops every day since I bought them, along with some of my undergarments that will fit him, and slept in one of my maternity nighties every night as well. He laid out an outfit before he left for work that he plans on putting on as soon as he gets home from work.
The transition has been much easier than I anticipated. I was worried what my reaction might be the first time I saw him in a skirt but he is so happy, relaxed, and at ease that it makes me feel the same way. The point of this gigantic post (sorry, I tend to be a talker) is to find out how else I can help him with this journey of exploring himself. Are there things I should do? Things I shouldn’t do? I just want to make sure that he feels comfortable while going through this discovery, exploration and transition (however far he chooses to take it). I’d love to hear experiences from anyone willing to share them…
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Hello again,
Sorry its taken me so long to respond. We have been talking a lot more about the process, journey, mindsets, etc and I think we are doing pretty well with making progress. It has been a lot of lengthy discussions about gender roles, gender identity, assigned gender vs actual gender. I am trying to explain how I came to be comfortable with accepting that for the most part, I feel like a man in a woman’s body, in hopes that my explanation of my process helps him with discovering himself. I’m not an expert with any of this stuff, all I know is what it was like when I was exploring and identifying who I was. I imagine that the process from FTM is much easier socially, mentally, and emotionally than it is for the MTF process. Just based on social norms, expectations, gender roles, and stereotypes that are put on men, it blows my mind. I am trying to take baby steps because I imagine it is a scary, overwhelming, vulnerable position to be in. I appreciate the fact that there is a place where we can both go to talk about it and talk with other members of our community. This site was a pleasant surprise for me and I’m looking forward to being more active as time goes on.

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I surprised my son that is the crossdresser on Saturday.  My son Parker whom goes by Nikki was excited. I had my friend Stu whom does drag and is a make up artist by day teach Nikki about make up application. I watched the whole thing and Nikki never complained. So far Nikki has learned about the make up application and starting to get it down pat. My friend Stu said yes after I asked him, I do anything for him and he does anything for me.

 

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My son Parker did it yesterday, came out to a couple of his female friends Angel and Kimber telling them there is a female side of him. He talked to me at first and then talked to an employee of mine that is a crossdresser for advice. I was proud of him, Angel and Kimber had this look on their face when he came out dressed as his female side Nikki. They were great about it and I see more time with them knowing Nikki more. Said Nikki looks like one of the girls. Angel and Kimber know my son very well, knows he likes to wear girl’s jeans and underwear in male mode and dress as a girl once a while.

 

 

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I decided to have my son Parker’s ears pierced on Friday. I had a talk with him about it, was wearing clip on earrings and felt they were uncomfortable to wear. Was glad to have the talk, asked me if it was going to hurt. Told him it is going to hurt a little bit, feel a sting at first and understood. He was nervous and I held his left hand. Sat there without moving at all. wearing a stud on each ear that is not noticable. I did sign the paper saying he could have it done with my permission.Bought him a pair of small hoop earrings and dangling earrings that are pierced earrings for his two first pairs of earrings.

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Took my son shopping Aaron shopping and he was dressed as Alley. Took him to a girl’s clothing store and picked out a few nice tops and jeans. Luckily the owner was good to him and never said a mean thing at all. Also bought him his first pairs of pantyhose,3 pairs of tan,3 pairs of Brown,3 pairs of Off Black and 3 pairs of Jet black. Happy with his new pieces in his wardrobe. I even took him to my friend Erica to have his ears pierced, Saw I went through it and told him it stings a little bit. Believed me and has studs in no one will not notice. It was fun and saw him happy.

 

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I saw my son smile dressed as Alley tonight. My good friend Melanie brought over a couple dresses and skirts over and I know my son loves dresses and skirts. Alley just lit with a huge smile when Melanie layed them on the couch and tried them on. All of them fit with no problems. Melanie found them in an abandoned storage locker she bought on Monday and thought of Alley very well. I told her thank you including Alley and she proudly said your welcome. I am glad to have a friend that cares and is also supportive of my son’s crossdressing.

 

 

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I truely love my son and I show it, this is his way of expressing himself. His closet including his dresser is half and half. He does not know it yet, I plan on buying his first pair of heels and this will be on Sunday.

 

My oldest son Danny is following in my shoes ,into crossdressing now. He is 11 now and started 3 weeks ago, he picked Danielle as his female side’s name. My wife and I are open minded letting him do this. Took him shopping for girl’s clothing at first and that was fun for him. The worst part was getting him to get used to wearing a bra, He is getting used to that now. He has two wigs right now so far. Danielle is consider a second daughter for my wife and I, next plan is to get the ears pierced which will be on Saturday. Told my son it hurts for a little bit, wears clip on earrings right now. Getting the make up down pat too, learning from his female friends. My youngest son is getting used to this, Danielle is a second sister to him and he is the masculine one

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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